What would you think if you saw a service dog accompanying a disabled person to mass? Would you be OK with it? Would you feel it would be inappropriate?
My pre-teen child is disabled and we’re finally on the waiting list for one of these fantastic dogs. The dog can pull her wheelchair, provide bracing when she walks, retrieve dropped objects and many, many other things. ADA allows access to any public place to disabled persons with a certified service dog, but mass is one place that we don’t want to push the law. I was wanting to get (name removed by moderator)ut from everyone here, just to test the waters.
Something tells me you don’t have a lot of experience with dogs so far… but I digress…
We have a Cantor in our parish who is blind who has a service dog. That dog is a favorite within our parish community with both the pastoral staff as well as the greater community (although we’re not permitted to feed her scraps at any time!) She is called by name and welcomed by all! Our Pastor’s only complaint is that when the dog is ever nearby, she always upstages him!! She’s just TOO CUTE!!
When the Cantor participates in a mass as Cantor, the dog sits with her near her place at the altar. When she participates as a regular member of the choir, the dog accompanies her to and from the altar for Communion. (We have a large parish & many cantors.)
Anyone who would have a problem with the dog participating in ANYTHING needs the counseling of their Pastor, in my opinion. Your service dog will become the newest member of your family and in time you will come to care for that dog as a family member. And when you lose that dog, you will grieve almost as much as you might grieve for a child.
Your parish should welcome the service dog as they would welcome your daughter. The dog, through his/her faithful and loving service, will enable your daughter fuller participation in all of the activities of life than she might otherwise be able to achieve, and in some sense is the dog is in many ways an extension of your daughter. No one would reject your daughter, so, similarly, no one should reject the dog who serves her and makes her life better.
Would that we all could follow the example of service that the dog will give ~ it may very well be better than the record of many of us so-called “more intelligent” humans! Dogs are so loving and so faithful! They truly love unconditionally, while many of us really don’t do so well on that score! And they are ever faithful. We could do well to learn from their example!
Love, Melanie
Lucky to be owned by 2 dogs (I don’t own them, they own me!)