Sex and marriage and where it is

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Sex happens.

Sometimes more, sometimes less.

It’s a natural part of life and therefore a natural part of marriage.

Personally, I’m for it.
 
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Just to add that he created sex so that a married couple could join with him in creating new life.
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This, stated by itself, is incorrect.

The church is quite clear that within marriage, the act is both procreative and uniative. They cannot be separated.

hawk
 
The virginal state is a much higher good. St. Paul recommends the celibate state to those who can handle it.
 
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With all due respect, your post is overly detailed for this forum. I don’t need to read about how many times you are “enjoying” each other per day, or stuff about “ravaging” or “perving”. Nor is that level of detail needed to engage in the OP’s discussion. Flagged.
 
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My apologies, edited.

I’m a part of a men’s group and these details have helped other men with similar problems come forward and ask for help. I’ll adjust my posting ethics but at the same time I hope that someone with similar problems isn’t missing out.
 
i am going to have to go ahead & agree w/ this post
 
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shipmate; clean it up; get a motel room

your post is completely inappropriate
 
“Where should we place sex in our lives? Do we fear it, love it or respect it? Or all of the above… Or something else entirely?”

What I posted was where I place sex in my life, and outlined how I love and respect it. I’m sorry it offended
 
you didn’t “offend” me whatsoever

but there are “MANY” minors & teenagers who post here

you’ve been flagged, ensign

try again tomorrow
 
Teenagers are entering adult life blindfolded. This is a problem with censoring them. They are left to make mistakes they don’t need to IMO.

While I’m not willing to begin a debate on that topic, I do think we need an R18 part of the site where we can talk more openly about the subject. All sex related topics could be posted there without the fear of offending people who believe in keeping truth cloaked in darkness.
 
If you think we need some new part of the site, that’s a discussion topic for the Site Feedback area and you can take it up with a moderator.

We’ve asked before about having an over-18 section of the site, primarily for the purpose of keeping under-18 posters from commenting on certain threads involving people’s marriages. The moderators nixed the idea.

In any event, even if we had an over-18 part of the site, your post would likely still be a little too explicit. You are not having a specific sexual problem in your marriage that you need to discuss from a Catholic perspective, such as lack of desire or an NFP issue. You just decided to post a lot of overly personal details that not everybody, including other adults, wants to read. I don’t know what you talk about in your “men’s group”, but this is the public Internet; there are not only people under 18 on this forum reading, but also women, people from a lot of different cultures, etc. and furthermore this is a self-moderating forum where if other people feel your post violates TOS by being inappropriate, they can flag it, as we did.
 
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