I was actually going to reply with a position as a joke, then realized everyone would probably google it, then google at it…not really a good idea for a Catholic forum.
Anyone care to take wagers on how many pages long this thread will be?
In all seriousness though if you are unsure about church teaching and research still leaves you confused, talk to your priest. You really don’t want to take advice on something as important as intimacy with your husband from random strangers on the internet that may not have your best interests at heart.
Not just your priest or any priest…a priest that actaully counsels in line with Catholic teaching. There are priests out there who will counsel in a way that goes against Church teaching…be careful!
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