With all due respect, TK421, a person isn’t a pacifist because they have no opportunity to do violence. A pacifist is a person who won’t use violence, period. I don’t become a pacifist because I work in an office at a white collar job. That’s what you seem to think pacifism is. It is not that, at all.
I have in fact debated - on this board - people who simply will not ever use violence, ever, including to stop the rape of their own daughter. I have major problems with that sort of extremism, as anyone would. That’s pacifism, and most of those people, I suspect, would want others to use violence to protect their daughters but wouldn’t do so themselves. That, to me, is cowardice, all the worse because it’s cowardice in the face of innocents who would expect the pacifists to protect them. Christians are not required to adhere to such extreme views.