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Qoeleth
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I would throw in that maybe ‘happiness’ or lack thereof is not something to which ‘shoulds’ or ethical imperative can be applied.
If you find a person who is unhappy, it would be unreasonable to reprimand him/her, and say “You SHOULD be happy.” It would also be unreasonable to say to a happy person, “You should not be happy.” Although, there is the famous story in the sayings of the Desert Fathers, where a hermit reprimands some monks for laughing saying, “How can you laugh when you are going to have to face Judgment Day?”
I think God can be encountered in both joy and sorrow- perhaps, for Christians, since our image of God is a suffering victim, more so in sorrow.
In either case, there can be no ‘should’ about how we feel.
If you find a person who is unhappy, it would be unreasonable to reprimand him/her, and say “You SHOULD be happy.” It would also be unreasonable to say to a happy person, “You should not be happy.” Although, there is the famous story in the sayings of the Desert Fathers, where a hermit reprimands some monks for laughing saying, “How can you laugh when you are going to have to face Judgment Day?”
I think God can be encountered in both joy and sorrow- perhaps, for Christians, since our image of God is a suffering victim, more so in sorrow.
In either case, there can be no ‘should’ about how we feel.