Should Cafeteria Catholics go Apostate?

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Ananias & Sapphira

Receiving the Holy Eucharist unworthily, regardless of peer pressure and appearances to others in the community, is basically lying to the Holy Spirit and the Body of Christ.

Ananias & Sapphira died in the presence of Saint Peter, the Magisterium of the Church. In effect, Ananias & Sapphira were pretending to be in full communion with Saint Peter’s community, vowing to give up everything to the community but breaching that promise with a lie by withholding. This would be especially egregious in light of the commonly held view that the 2nd coming of Jesus was imminent.

This story would seem to have particular relevance to anyone entering a religious order today.

But the essence of the story is relevant to the reception of the Holy Eucharist unworthily … that is, I fully repent of my most grievous sins … but not really. It is lying to the Holy Spirit and the Body of Christ when going before the Real Presence of Jesus Christ.
 
The question seems to be more:

Should only righteous people be allowed in the faith who follow church law and live a life dedicated to Christ.

or should we have sinners in our church who really need Gods help in changing their lives on how they think and live and need help in coming to understand the faith. Should we kick them all out? Should we give up on them? Isn’t it the churches mission to draw all people to Christ especially sinners.Is it right to judge others as unworthy.

If its the churches mission only to save the righteous then kick the rest out.

If its the churches mission to save sinners and draw them to Christ then let us lead by example - pray for them and draw them to Christ.
 
The question seems to be more:

Should only righteous people be allowed in the faith who follow church law and live a life dedicated to Christ.

or should we have sinners in our church who really need Gods help in changing their lives on how they think and live and need help in coming to understand the faith. Should we kick them all out? Should we give up on them? Isn’t it the churches mission to draw all people to Christ especially sinners.Is it right to judge others as unworthy.

If its the churches mission only to save the righteous then kick the rest out.

If its the churches mission to save sinners and draw them to Christ then let us lead by example - pray for them and draw them to Christ.
All sinners, regardless of the state of their belief systems, are welcome to participate in the Mass in prayer. It is a house of prayer for all. It is like auditing a college course without taking the exams.

All sinners must follow the prescriptions to participate in the sacraments. It is an honor system, but there are Canon laws that state that under certain circumstances where the public desecration of sacraments by public figures undermines the message of the Church, then the sacraments must be denied to the individual.

That is, wolves in sheep’s clothing must be identified when luring sheep away from the fold.
 
Should a parent disown a child who sins?
It’s a good question because it highlights the need to look at the Church’s house rules in the setting of family.

Here’s a true story. A man marries a woman who is the product of a broken home with a lot of background baggage. Their marriage produces young children. The wife has many half brothers & sisters from poor backgrounds, so she opens her doors whenever they need a helping hand with the blessing of the husband. Along comes a half sister with her longstanding boyfriend, but their relationship is falling apart. The boyfriend starts flirting with the wife and seduces the wife away from her husband. A divorce ensues, and the boyfriend and now his wife go off happily ever after (yeah, right) with the children.

So should the husband have allowed an “open house”?
 
Baptized Catholics who do not believe in what the Catholic Church teaches should not receive Holy Communion. They have excommunicated themselves by their own unbelief. If they do receive Holy Communion, they commit sacrilege.

This does not mean that they should discontinue attending Mass or that they should be prevented from attending Mass. However, it does mean that they should not publicly proclaim, by their participation in Holy Communion, that they are Catholics in good standing when they are not. It is dishonest and scandalous to others when they do this.
 
We have to take into account those who are confused/have doubts but who want to be a part of the Church. These are not obstinate sinners, so we have to be careful not to lump them in with those who know better but persist in their heresy. Just saying. 🙂
 
We have to take into account those who are confused/have doubts but who want to be a part of the Church. These are not obstinate sinners, so we have to be careful not to lump them in with those who know better but persist in their heresy. Just saying. 🙂
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So true, most “Cafeteria Catholics” I meet had a very good will and wanted to do what God want, but no one told them how the catholic faith works. Almost everyone here in Germany thinks that the Catholic Church is just one of many Churches and the teachings can change over time just like the teachings of protestant “Churches” did.
 
I assume the OP is referring to the type of Cafeteria Catholic who has been fully catechized and knows what is categorized as a grievous sin and egregiously chooses steadfastly not to acknowledge the Church’s stance on certain grievous sins. That is they defiantly choose to continue specific grievous practices and still present themselves to receive the Holy Eucharist.

Under such circumstances, I would agree with the archbishop in Ireland, Diarmuid Martin, that they should leave the Church rather than receive the Holy Eucharist defiantly unworthily. They are truly an apostate in every way, except declared.
I assumed this, as well, and I think the answer to it conditions our responses. For myself, when I see the word “apostasize,” although it’s incorrectly used in this context, I tend to think he is referring to an informed and deliberate decision to abandon certain truths of the faith, rather than unintentional, uninformed, ignorant disobedience of the sort that probably characterizes the majority of disobedience among Catholics. (Although, how many of those people would continue to be disobedient if they were fully informed?)

Incidentally, I was reading the Gospel of Matthew earlier, and a useful passage of Scripture popped up with which we’re all familiar with:

[BIBLEDRB]Matthew 18:15-17[/BIBLEDRB]

This is useful to bear in mind for those insisting everyone must be treated exactly the same whether they obey the Church’s teachings or not (although, again, that’s a secondary question here – the main one is whether rebellious Catholics have a place for good in the Church, either their own good or that of the Church at large). There is, in fact, a qualitative difference between a penitent sinner and an impenitent one – and we have the words of Christ Himself to confirm this. A person who struggles with, say, masturbation, can’t quite seem to break the habit of it, and must frequently avail him/herself of confession, is simply a different creature than the one who denies the Church’s teaching authority, declares that there’s nothing wrong with masturbation and anyone who says otherwise is a stuck-up fossilized prude, etc.
None of the politicians that was mentioned preach as if they were Pope. They represent their community and their personal political opinion. For example, the current (Democrat) majority leader is a Mormon and pro-life amongst other positions. Yet, I would never think, without evidence, that he represents his Mormon faith in his speeches, decisions, and votes. Nor do I think that he SHOULD represent his Mormon faith. His duty is to represent his state.
I don’t think he should represent his Mormon faith, either. But then, I think that because Mormonism is false and dangerous, not because I have some principled objection to representing religious truths in the political sphere.

The problem is that (a) every Catholic is required to give full assent of faith to the Church’s moral teachings; and (b) why in the world, if you actually do this, would you want something other than the Church’s teachings to be actualized in the world?
As far as the Church cutting off rotten branches remember the parable of the wheat and the weeds. When the evil-doer sowed the weeds the field workers asked to pull up the weeds and the master said no because it may damage health plants nearby. Let Christ and the Holy Spirit prune the branches. Too often when the Church does it themselves they pull up healthy plants near by. Just as bad they are not able to fully remove the dead plants which provide fuel for fires that destroy the majority of the crop.
OK, but again, no one here is talking about kicking people out of the Church. What’s being addressed is simply the prudential question of whether people who obstinately refuse to be in communion with the Church should stay in it or leave.

There is a small leap to make between “Is it good for rebellious Catholics to leave the Church?” and “Rebellious Catholics must leave the Church.”
 
I think we have to remember that some of those who are most obstinate in there heretical leanings were instructed to be so by rebellious clergy and are back up by rebellious theologians. It’s not all on the shoulders of the laity. Pelosi, for example, didn’t come up with her skewed ideas about Church teaching all on her own. As clever as she is, she’s no theologian. She got those ideas from some rebellious person with a degree from one of our own seminaries/colleges/universities. So, we need to remember that the flock follows the shepherd whose voice they recognize, and if they are looking for a voice that will tell them what they want to hear, that’s the one they’ll follow.
 
I think we have to remember that some of those who are most obstinate in there heretical leanings were instructed to be so by rebellious clergy and are back up by rebellious theologians. It’s not all on the shoulders of the laity. Pelosi, for example, didn’t come up with her skewed ideas about Church teaching all on her own. As clever as she is, she’s no theologian. She got those ideas from some rebellious person with a degree from one of our own seminaries/colleges/universities. So, we need to remember that the flock follows the shepherd whose voice they recognize, and if they are looking for a voice that will tell them what they want to hear, that’s the one they’ll follow.
yes, I know of some priests that have said ABC is ok.
 
yes, I know of some priests that have said ABC is ok.
If by ABC is meant an abortifacient, are those priests excommunicated automatically for helping to procure an abortion, or is that for a surgical abortion only?
 
yes, I know of some priests that have said ABC is ok.
By and large our clergy are a solid group, hard working and unappreciated, so I’m not saying they’re all to blame–or that any particular person is to blame.

What I’m saying in my last post and here is that the Church is composed of flawed people, so naturally, these kinds of problems are going to exist. Jesus had Judas and Peter and we have them, as well. Most of our Judases, however, seem to want to hang in there instead of hanging themselves, so to speak. That’s a good thing–and a bad thing.

It’s good because just being at Mass and involved in their parishes might help them come around to the truth. It’s bad because of the influence they can have on the weak and uninformed. Still, each one of us is responsible for our own decisions and actions, so no one will be able to stand before God and say he had to be disobedient. If he knew the truth but just didn’t want to believe it and thought he was going to change the Church to his way of thinking he is culpable.

As I’ve written already, just to repeat it for the sake of those who may not have read my other posts, bad Catholics belong in the Church where they can be helped. Going apostate helps no one because even if they return they’ve lost ground they can never recover, although God can make good come from our bad decisions and actions, we are still responsible for them.
 
By and large our clergy are a solid group, hard working and unappreciated, so I’m not saying they’re all to blame–or that any particular person is to blame.

What I’m saying in my last post and here is that the Church is composed of flawed people, so naturally, these kinds of problems are going to exist. Jesus had Judas and Peter and we have them, as well. Most of our Judases, however, seem to want to hang in there instead of hanging themselves, so to speak. That’s a good thing–and a bad thing.

It’s good because just being at Mass and involved in their parishes might help them come around to the truth. It’s bad because of the influence they can have on the weak and uninformed. Still, each one of us is responsible for our own decisions and actions, so no one will be able to stand before God and say he had to be disobedient. If he knew the truth but just didn’t want to believe it and thought he was going to change the Church to his way of thinking he is culpable.

As I’ve written already, just to repeat it for the sake of those who may not have read my other posts, bad Catholics belong in the Church where they can be helped. Going apostate helps no one because even if they return they’ve lost ground they can never recover, although God can make good come from our bad decisions and actions, we are still responsible for them.
Just to clarify, are you referring to Cafeteria Catholics as “Judases”? I’m not sure if I would liken them to Judas b/c of what Judas did to Jesus.

Most Caf Catholics I know wouldn’t even kill a flea.
 
Just to clarify, are you referring to Cafeteria Catholics as “Judases”? I’m not sure if I would liken them to Judas b/c of what Judas did to Jesus.

Most Caf Catholics I know wouldn’t even kill a flea.
It’s not a literal one-to-one comparison. Judas did what he did with full knowledge and consent–that is the point. Most cafeteria Catholics are not fully informed. They have not been taught solid Catholic teaching, but have had “love is all you need” pablum fed them all their lives. So when it comes to the hard choices they have nothing to help them make the right ones. One can only be culpable if one knows what one is doing.
 
Just to clarify, are you referring to Cafeteria Catholics as “Judases”? I’m not sure if I would liken them to Judas b/c of what Judas did to Jesus.

Most Caf Catholics I know wouldn’t even kill a flea.
1 Corinthians 11:27

To be accountable for the death of Jesus when celebrating his sacrifice as a priestly people does seem to have a Judas Kiss quality about it. It is interesting that this would come from Paul, who at the time of Jesus death would have celebrated His death not believing him to be the true Son of God but as a usurper of the Jewish tradition. If anyone should be weak in passing the message of unworthy participation of a Cafeteria Catholic at Our Lord’s Table, it would surely have to be him given his beliefs at the time of Jesus crucifixion. Yet, he had no trouble passing the message that hypocrites will be held accountable for the death of Jesus.

What bothers me is that many feel that our New Evangelization does not have to include the prescriptions and proscriptions for worthy versus unworthy reception. It is truly selling out the Holy Eucharist.
 
Most Catholics I know use ABC, support homosexual marriage and sex before marriage. Should these Catholics remain in communion with the faith? All of them accept the Eucharist during mass.

Should cafeteria Catholics go apostate?
Every place has its limits and boots people out when they cross that limit. For example, people get banned from internet social forums when they violate the rules and are given a warning too many times.

Jesus chased away the money changers from the Temple because they were causing scandal to the faithful. When reading the following quote from Jesus, remember that the Church is the body of Christ:

“And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away; it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.” Matthew 5:30

But the question of whether or not someone is causing enough scandal to be officially excommunicated or denied Holy Communion should be left up to the bishop.
 
**Most Catholics I know use ABC, support homosexual marriage and sex before marriage. Should these Catholics remain in communion with the faith? All of them accept the Eucharist during mass.

Should cafeteria Catholics go apostate? **

Friend,
point one is bad enough (use of ABC), but many sincerely misunderstand the SERIOUSNESS of that one particular thing, since all of society and most christians condone it. One can be SINCERELY confused about that. But all the other stuff, taken TOGETHER with their use of ABC, indicates that they are ALREADY apostate,
so there is no question here of should they “GO” apostate.
If they are already doing all these things and more, and advocating them,
and have been counselled to repent and WON’T do so,
then they are ALREADY apostates. ((though INDIVIDUAL culpabilities will vary due
to individual circumstances, how well they were catechized, etc, and the DEGREE of their WILLFULNESS in rebelling)). But in general they are ALREADY apostates.
AND, because of that,
their RECEIVING OF COMMUNION is an extremely grave Act of Sacrilege,
a sinful assault against the Body and Blood of the Lord,
as Saint Paul, speaking by the Holy Spirit, infallibly warned us.
These people, because unrepentant, ARE the “bad fish” in the net,
they are the “cockle” or “weeds” in the field of Wheat planted by the Lord.
They SHOULD leave, but a massive church effort to expel them all,
as some call for, and I have too, in the past,
would result in the ripping up of the WHEAT plants as well, and Christ said
NOT to do that, no matter how tempting it would be to do that very thing
in order to “cleanse the temple,” so to speak.

Sincerely,
Jaypeeto4
+JMJ+
 
I think we have to understand the nature of the world we are in. By we I mean Western Europeans and North Americans who comprise most members here.

2 realities intrude:
  1. The societies in which we live find their basic bedrock assumptions not in Christianity any more but in liberal humaniam.
  2. Christianity and specifically catholic Christianity is counter cultural in a world which accepts materialist humanism as “obviously true” and which is viscerally anti authority.
Given the above and the concurrent fact that most people are still baptised it is quasi inevitable that many indeed most nominal Catholics will divert from Church teachings whenever such teaching comes into conflict with the liberal humanist moeurs and expectations which are the basic moeurs of the culture in which they ae raised.

I feel The Church would be better served if it stopped pretending to suppose the above was not true and instead explained to people better that while such response is natural it is nonetheless erroneous. Robust teaching while remaining open armed is a difficult balancing act.
 
I agree that ideally, they should repent, confess, and be in submission to the teachings of the Church and we should pray for them to do so. Here is the definition of Apostasy from the Catholic Encyclopedia. It clarifies for me the seriousness of this issue. I would always work and pray to remain safely within the Ark of the One Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church and pray the same for others, in Christ’s great love. :

"(apo, from, and stasis, station, standing, or position).

The word itself in its etymological sense, signifies the desertion of a post, the giving up of a state of life; he who voluntarily embraces a definite state of life cannot leave it, therefore, without becoming an apostate. Most authors, however, distinguish with Benedict XIV (De Synodo di£cesanâ, XIII, xi, 9), between three kinds of apostasy: apostasy a Fide or perfidi£, when a Christian gives up his faith; apostasy ab ordine, when a cleric abandons the ecclesiastical state; apostasy a religione, or monachatus, when a religious leaves the religious life."
 
I think it would be best for the body of Christ if we concentrated on our own sins and lack of virtue first, before we start wondering about whether other people deserve to be part of the Church.

I spent 25 years as one of those “apostate” Catholics. God was patient with me until I came to my senses.

If God can be patient with our faults and sins, maybe we should be patient with other people as well instead of wondering if they deserve to be members of the Church.

-Tim-
Thank you for posting this. I as thinking the same thing.
 
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