Should children have the legal right to choose their parents

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Given the split between Church and State there is no religious authority or self-evident objective moral reason to say that the biological parents have to be the “legal” parents. If a child does not like his or her parents, should he or she have the right to choose new parents?
 
… If a child does not like his or her parents, should he or she have the right to choose new parents?
Is there no idea so outlandish that it won’t be mentioned? Perhaps they don’t have that right for the same reason they aren’t allowed to vote.
 
Well, if they can choose their gender, as the lesbian couple in California let their son do, then why not let a child choose his parents? 😉

Hey, I have an idea…why not let a child chose his species? Maybe he’d rather be a cat or a horse than a human. Why not let a child choose his age? If he doesn’t want to be five, let him pretend to be 12.

It’s all equally silly.
 
Well, if they can choose their gender, as the lesbian couple in California let their son do, then why not let a child choose his parents? 😉

Hey, I have an idea…why not let a child chose his species? Maybe he’d rather be a cat or a horse than a human. Why not let a child choose his age? If he doesn’t want to be five, let him pretend to be 12.

It’s all equally silly.
It is silly. And, sad. But, it appears this is the era when people are allowed to make very silly and sad choices. This guy thinks he is a cat and he has been allowed to alter his appearance to make himself appear catlike.
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That man is surely mentally ill, and the doctor who performed this atrocious face-altering surgery has no moral principles at all.
 
Given the split between Church and State there is no religious authority or self-evident objective moral reason to say that the biological parents have to be the “legal” parents. If a child does not like his or her parents, should he or she have the right to choose new parents?
No. Under our legal system children have legal rights, but cannot assert most of them (human rights they do have to care, nutrition, water, etc. but most human rights are not codified) – the legal rights are held in trust by the parents. That does not mean that we don’t report child abuse. It means that children cannot assert the same rights as an adult – the parents do it for them or hold them in trust. Children to do not have legal autonomy for the most part.

This is why in custodial proceedings and in any proceedings where the person is incompetent, a guardian ad litem is appointed for a single action, or special guardian if there are many actions or issues.

State laws vary but depending upon conditions at home, a child can ask for emancipation but that also depends on age and by state. Some states call it termination of parental rights. In some of these cases, a guardian ad litem is also appointed. Most states require that an adult file a petition for removal of parental rights or emancipation of the child, though it is one of the few rights a child does hold before the age of 18.
 
Given the split between Church and State there is no religious authority or self-evident objective moral reason to say that the biological parents have to be the “legal” parents. If a child does not like his or her parents, should he or she have the right to choose new parents?
Who’s going to make that determination? How it be made? And the biggest question - who’d be foolhardy enough to become the new mom and dad?

If we sat up a system whereby kids could exchange their parents for new and improved models, I have a sneaking hunch there are going to be lots of disappointed, parent-less youngsters.

Luna
 
Given the split between Church and State there is no religious authority or self-evident objective moral reason to say that the biological parents have to be the “legal” parents. If a child does not like his or her parents, should he or she have the right to choose new parents?
You do not need a religious take to show that the parents have authority over their children. Children have always been considered property of the parents, only recently we have been talking about their rights as individuals.
 
You do not need a religious take to show that the parents have authority over their children. Children have always been considered property of the parents, only recently we have been talking about their rights as individuals.
You just asserted that you don’t need religious authority to show that parents have authority over their children. You have not shown me how this can be demonstrated without self evident objective moral values and religion. That people have always done something in the past has no relevance to how it will be done in the future. So while moral society is crumbling around you, posters might want to take this thread seriously.

Don’t people realize that this is the philosophy forum? In philosophy you present a logical argument in defense of your position.
 
If we sat up a system whereby kids could exchange their parents for new and improved models, I have a sneaking hunch there are going to be lots of disappointed, parent-less youngsters.

Luna
So? There are a lot of parentless youngsters in our society now. People don’t seem to mind.
 
You just asserted that you don’t need religious authority to show that parents have authority over their children. You have not shown me how this can be demonstrated without self evident objective moral values and religion. That people have always done something in the past has no relevance to how it will be done in the future. So while moral society is crumbling around you, posters might want to take this thread seriously.

Don’t people realize that this is the philosophy forum? In philosophy you present a logical argument in defense of your position.
If you were to think about what I said you would understand that children like animals have been considered and could be considered property of the parents. Giving physical birth and keeping the individual alive is ownership. Just use an utilitarian point of view and you can see how making and supporting something for your own use is automatically your property.

Please show to me that indication of past behaviors never has relevance in how to predict the future? Physical sciences absolutely rely on the past to infer the future. Studies of human behaviors have been quite successful by doing the same thing.

I understand that this is a philosophy forum but in your OP you made an initial assumption with another statement that was a non sequitur.

Citing moral decadence and crumbling societies is just an appeal to emotion and it does not really belong to a philosophical forum.
 
That man is surely mentally ill, …
Tut, tut, now. We mustn’t be judgmental. Everyone’s beliefs are equal, and none are better than another’s. If a man thinks he’s a cat, who are we to judge? When you make a judgment, one based strictly on facts, you are a bigot, for rational and moral thought is an act of bigotry, because no matter how sincerely you may seek to gather the facts, no matter how earnestly you may look at the evidence, no matter how disciplined you may try to be in your reasoning, your conclusion is going to be so tainted by your personal bigotries, by your upbringing, by your religion, by the color of your skin, by the nation of your great-great-great-great-great grandfather’s birth; that no matter what your conclusion, it is useless. It is nothing other than the reflection of your bigotries, and the only way to eliminate bigotry is to eliminate rational thought. Ultimately, we are told by the intelligencia, we cannot really know anything.

If you agree with the above, you would understand how post-modernists come up with cockamamie ideas like children choosing their parents, SS"M", and all their other social engineering succotash. If their ideas were automobiles, who would buy them? I wouldn’t even want to be around when they tried to start one up. But that’s exactly what they have been selling us for the last 100 years or so, and we keep buying it. Just think about it. In order not to discriminate, we have to make ourselves intentionally stupid; we have to pretend we don’t know something that we do. It is sometimes called political correctness, which is nothing more than a crusade to ignorance characterized by a denial of truth that conflicts with ideology. [Think about not really being able to know anything. How can so-called educators call themselves the “intelligencia” if they can’t know anything, and why are we paying them if they are not imparting knowledge?]

On the other hand, if you disagree with them, then you believe that man can discriminate between the good and evil, right and wrong, and between actions that lead to success and actions that lead to failure.
 
If you were to think about what I said you would understand that children like animals have been considered and could be considered property of the parents. Giving physical birth and keeping the individual alive is ownership. Just use an utilitarian point of view and you can see how making and supporting something for your own use is automatically your property.
That doesn’t tell me why a child shouldn’t have the legal right to choose their parents. It only tells me that people view children as property.
Please show to me that indication of past behaviors never has relevance in how to predict the future? Physical sciences absolutely rely on the past to infer the future. Studies of human behaviors have been quite successful by doing the same thing.
You have an uncanny ability to take things out of context and present them in a light that is most fruitful to you. Strawmen will only make you appear dishonest. In reality, the onus is on you to show me why the past is relevant to the context of this particular discussion, given that it is about whether or not there is any good reason to deny a child the legal right to choose their parents if there is no self-evident objective moral law or religious authority to the contrary.
you made an initial assumption with another statement that was a non sequitur.
Then you can demonstrate that fact instead of merely asserting it.
Citing moral decadence and crumbling societies is just an appeal to emotion and it does not really belong to a philosophical forum.
Far from being an appeal to emotion, it is a statement of the facts that would be evident to any Catholic that hasn’t been living in a cave.
 
The burden of proof is on the advocate. Period.
I am not advocating. I am asking why, given a true split between church and state, children should not have the legal right to choose their parents.
 
I am not advocating. I am asking why, given a true split between church and state, children should not have the legal right to choose their parents.
The state clearly thinks that it is in the child’s best interest (and therefore society’s best interest) for it to to stay with the people who - in the majority of cases - care for it more than other adults do. And given the child’s lack of maturity and life experience, it is likely that the average child lacks the capability to make such a huge decision rationally. There are many things that children are deemed too immature to do, either for their good or for the good of society. This is one of those things.
 
That doesn’t tell me why a child shouldn’t have the legal right to choose their parents. It only tells me that people view children as property.

You have an uncanny ability to take things out of context and present them in a light that is most fruitful to you. Strawmen will only make you appear dishonest. In reality, the onus is on you to show me why the past is relevant to the context of this particular discussion, given that it is about whether or not there is any good reason to deny a child the legal right to choose their parents if there is no self-evident objective moral law or religious authority to the contrary.

Then you can demonstrate that fact instead of merely asserting it.

Far from being an appeal to emotion, it is a statement of the facts that would be evident to any Catholic that hasn’t been living in a cave.
First property does not have rights, and so children would not have rights.

Second you keep making absolute statements like lack of relevance but when you are shown that that kind of relevance exists in a lot of other cases you claim strawman instead of explaining why in your case it is not relevant. Constantly pointing the finger back does not make a valid argument.

Your last statement is another non sequitur based on an insult. Schopenhauer would be proud of that rebuttal.
 
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