Should I be Anglican or Roman Catholic

[Haldren21]

Hello everyone. I’m currently having issues deciding whether my beliefs are more Roman Catholic or Anglican.
-In the past I’ve been pro choice, but I’m now starting to see that even unborn babies are still alive, as the soul is created at the time of conception. Therefore, I only believe in abortion if it would be dangerous for the mother to have the baby. (i.e. she might die)
-I believe that we need to confess our sins to someone
-I feel that a Church needs a figurehead/leader to rally behind
-I think that frequent holidays and frequent rituals are important for us to renew our faith
-I believe we should pray to saints as well as Jesus
-This is a tad bit superficial, but I really like the look of Roman Catholic churches and priests.
-I’m against homosexual marriage, and I think it is wrong to be in a homosexual relationship, but I’m not going to walk up to homosexuals and start preaching to them as that is not my place.
-I feel that divorce is wrong, as when you get married you take those vows for life
-I am against premarital sex.
-I don’t really have an issue with contraception if you can’t support a child, but it is wrong for married couples who can support a child to deny nature.
So, with all of these, do you think the Roman Catholic or Anglican Communion is right for me? I welcome everybody’s (name removed by moderator)ut. Thanks!

 

[CopticChristian]

Hello everyone. I’m currently having issues deciding whether my beliefs are more Roman Catholic or Anglican.
-In the past I’ve been pro choice, but I’m now starting to see that even unborn babies are still alive, as the soul is created at the time of conception. Therefore, I only** believe** in abortion if it would be dangerous for the mother to have the baby. (i.e. she might die)
-I believe that we need to confess our sins to someone
**-I feel **that a Church needs a figurehead/leader to rally behind
-I think that frequent holidays and frequent rituals are important for us to renew our faith
-I believe we should pray to saints as well as Jesus
-This is a tad bit superficial, but **I really like **the look of Roman Catholic churches and priests.
**-I’m against **homosexual marriage, and I think it is wrong to be in a homosexual relationship, but I’m not going to walk up to homosexuals and start preaching to them as that is not my place.
-I feel that divorce is wrong, as when you get married you take those vows for life
-I am against premarital sex.
-I don’t really have an issue with contraception if you can’t support a child, but it is wrong for married couples who can support a child to deny nature.
So, with all of these, do you think the Roman Catholic or Anglican Communion is right for me? I welcome everybody’s (name removed by moderator)ut. Thanks!

Haldren,

I see that you believe, you think, you feel and you like. I don’t see one word about Christ or following Christ. I believe that you should spend some time asking your self what it is you are trying to accomplish…

What is it I want to do?

How am I going to do that?

What will it take to accomplish that?

How will I engage what I know is right and correct as opposed to what I feel and like and will I engage as I should?

Where will I be if I choose without introspection?

Who am I serving?

I have no other answers for you.

 

[Haldren21]

I apologize for not being very clear. I believe that Jesus died for our sins and everything in the bible. I just know that both Catholicism and the Anglican Communion believe that, so I didn’t see it necessary to post that.

 

[CopticChristian]

I apologize for not being very clear. I believe that Jesus died for our sins and everything in the bible. I just know that both Catholicism and the Anglican Communion believe that, so I didn’t see it necessary to post that.

Haldren,

You are making a rather big decision…recall the Sound of Music…“lets start from the very beginning…a very good place to start…” or how do you start a journey of a thousand miles, one foot in front of the other…

Jesus died and gained redemption, Ok…by one mans disobedience sin entered into the world and by one mans obedience we were made righteous…

Now what did he do to start a Church…he did start a Church you know…

 

[Haldren21]

Haldren,

You are making a rather big decision…recall the Sound of Music…“lets start from the very beginning…a very good place to start…” or how do you start a journey of a thousand miles, one foot in front of the other…

Jesus died and gained redemption, Ok…by one mans disobedience sin entered into the world and by one mans obedience we were made righteous…

Now what did he do to start a Church…he did start a Church you know…

Well, he told Simon Peter “Upon this rock I will build my church, and not even the gates of hell will stand against it.” So, if Jesus started the Catholic Church, then the Catholic Church is the only true church. Why do Protestants believe that their churches are right?

 

[Tietjen]

Well, he told Simon Peter “Upon this rock I will build my church, and not even the gates of hell will stand against it.” So, if Jesus started the Catholic Church, then the Catholic Church is the only true church. Why do Protestants believe that their churches are right?

Because there are “things” within the Catholic Church that Protestants don’t like. As an example, most Protestants won’t acknowledge that the Holy Eucharist IS the body & blood of our Lord. They, like many of Jesus’ followers in John 6, find the reality either too distasteful or too unbelievable to accept. Therefore, most Protestants will simply say that our Lord was speaking metaphorically rather than literally; in order to do this they must ignore or downplay the evidence which contradicts their personal opinion on the matter. Therefore, in their minds, any Church that actually believes Jesus was speaking literally, is not, in their minds, the Church that Christ founded or else they would be obligated to acknowledge the Holy Eucharist. So, they attempt to create for themselves the Church which they believe Christ had in mind; throwing out those things that they don’t like or find too difficult to accept and taking in those things which are agreeable to them. Luther did this, and look how many divisions have taken place since then. When man decides that he is the author of truth, chaos is inevitable and many are left asking… “Which Church should I choose?” When the real question should be… “Which Church contains the entire Truth given to man from God?” When that’s the question, there can be only one. Was the Anglican Church founded by Christ or an English royal who rejected Catholic teaching?

 

[Haldren21]

Because there are “things” within the Catholic Church that Protestants don’t like. As an example, most Protestants won’t acknowledge that the Holy Eucharist IS the body & blood of our Lord. They, like many of Jesus’ followers in John 6, find the reality either too distasteful or too unbelievable to accept. Therefore, most Protestants will simply say that our Lord was speaking metaphorically rather than literally; in order to do this they must ignore or downplay the evidence which contradicts their personal opinion on the matter. Therefore, in their minds, any Church that actually believes Jesus was speaking literally, is not, in their minds, the Church that Christ founded or else they would be obligated to acknowledge the Holy Eucharist. So, they attempt to create for themselves the Church which they believe Christ had in mind; throwing out those things that they don’t like or find too difficult to accept and taking in those things which are agreeable to them. Luther did this, and look how many divisions have taken place since then. When man decides that he is the author of truth, chaos is inevitable and many are left asking… “Which Church should I choose?” When the real question should be… “Which Church contains the entire Truth given to man from God?” When that’s the question, there can be only one. Was the Anglican Church founded by Christ or an English royal who rejected Catholic teaching?

Thanks guys. Im too young to get confirmed right now, but you can rest assured that the moment I turn 18 I’m driving to my local Catholic church to start the process.

 

[Tietjen]

Thanks guys. Im too young to get confirmed right now, but you can rest assured that the moment I turn 18 I’m driving to my local Catholic church to start the process.

You don’t have to be 18 to be confirmed; though if your parents are in opposition of you entering the Catholic Church, perhaps prayer will soften their stance on the issue. If not, I’d encourage you to continue asking questions and researching Church history and dogma on your own. Respect your parents’ wishes but when you are able, do as you have suggested and speak with a Catholic Priest about enrolling in RCIA. These classes will give you more information on what the Catholic Church teaches and believes and after you have gone through RCIA, you can make up your mind based on the knowledge and understanding that you have… ie - You can make an informed decision. God bless and take care.

 

[Haldren21]

You don’t have to be 18 to be confirmed; though if your parents are in opposition of you entering the Catholic Church, perhaps prayer will soften their stance on the issue. If not, I’d encourage you to continue asking questions and researching Church history and dogma on your own. Respect your parents’ wishes but when you are able, do as you have suggested and speak with a Catholic Priest about enrolling in RCIA. These classes will give you more information on what the Catholic Church teaches and believes and after you have gone through RCIA, you can make up your mind based on the knowledge and understanding that you have… ie - You can make an informed decision. God bless and take care.

They’re not exactly against the Catholic church, just any church until I’m 18. Sadly, I’ve grown up not going to church, a mistake I will not repeat with my children.

 

[ComeHome2Rome]

Hello everyone. I’m currently having issues deciding whether my beliefs are more Roman Catholic or Anglican.
-In the past I’ve been pro choice, but I’m now starting to see that even unborn babies are still alive, as the soul is created at the time of conception. Therefore, I only believe in abortion if it would be dangerous for the mother to have the baby. (i.e. she might die)
-I believe that we need to confess our sins to someone
-I feel that a Church needs a figurehead/leader to rally behind
-I think that frequent holidays and frequent rituals are important for us to renew our faith
-I believe we should pray to saints as well as Jesus
-This is a tad bit superficial, but I really like the look of Roman Catholic churches and priests.
-I’m against homosexual marriage, and I think it is wrong to be in a homosexual relationship, but I’m not going to walk up to homosexuals and start preaching to them as that is not my place.
-I feel that divorce is wrong, as when you get married you take those vows for life
-I am against premarital sex.
-I don’t really have an issue with contraception if you can’t support a child, but it is wrong for married couples who can support a child to deny nature.
So, with all of these, do you think the Roman Catholic or Anglican Communion is right for me? I welcome everybody’s (name removed by moderator)ut. Thanks!

By your current beliefs re: abortion & birth control you exclude yourself from the Catholic Church. If you’re open to change your beliefs to be compatible with the Catholic Church you may want to get to know the saints who have chosen to give their lives rather than abort their children like St.Gianna and also just last month, so not officially a saint (yet), Chiara from Italy just laid down herself for the sake of the life of her unborn child. Also, you could listen to Contraception Why Not? Or look into the Theology of the Body.

I’m not sure the stance the Anglican’s have on those two issues so can’t say whether you’ll be a good candidate for their faith.

I encourage you to continue praying & discerning.

 

[SaintPatrick333]

I apologize for not being very clear. I believe that Jesus died for our sins and everything in the bible. I just know that both Catholicism and the Anglican Communion believe that, so I didn’t see it necessary to post that.

Well seeing as anglicans are coming into the Catholic Church in record numbers that might be your answer right there Try signing up for RCIA. Doesn’t cost you anything and there’s no obligations. Learn the basics of Catholicism inside and out, and by the end of the program if you’re unsure or don’t want to join, there’s no pressure. If you’re anything like me, you’ll be hooked after two or three classes

 

[Monster]

By your current beliefs re: abortion & birth control you exclude yourself from the Catholic Church. If you’re open to change your beliefs to be compatible with the Catholic Church you may want to get to know the saints who have chosen to give their lives rather than abort their children like St.Gianna and also just last month, so not officially a saint (yet), Chiara from Italy just laid down herself for the sake of the life of her unborn child. Also, you could listen to Contraception Why Not? Or look into the Theology of the Body.

I’m not sure the stance the Anglican’s have on those two issues so can’t say whether you’ll be a good candidate for their faith.

I encourage you to continue praying & discerning.

Regarding those two issues your beliefs are Anglican as we think that birth control is fine and abortion is only appropriate if it’s endangering the mothers life or she’s been raped. Otherwise your a proper little catholic

 

[TomD123]

I suggest you look into the history of the Anglicans.
Also who is the head of the Church? Is it St. Peter and his successors? Or is it the king?

 

[englishredrose]

Hello everyone. I’m currently having issues deciding whether my beliefs are more Roman Catholic or Anglican.
-In the past I’ve been pro choice, but I’m now starting to see that even unborn babies are still alive, as the soul is created at the time of conception. Therefore, I only believe in abortion if it would be dangerous for the mother to have the baby. (i.e. she might die)
-I believe that we need to confess our sins to someone
-I feel that a Church needs a figurehead/leader to rally behind
-I think that frequent holidays and frequent rituals are important for us to renew our faith
-I believe we should pray to saints as well as Jesus
-This is a tad bit superficial, but I really like the look of Roman Catholic churches and priests.
-I’m against homosexual marriage, and I think it is wrong to be in a homosexual relationship, but I’m not going to walk up to homosexuals and start preaching to them as that is not my place.
-I feel that divorce is wrong, as when you get married you take those vows for life
-I am against premarital sex.
-I don’t really have an issue with contraception if you can’t support a child, but it is wrong for married couples who can support a child to deny nature.
So, with all of these, do you think the Roman Catholic or Anglican Communion is right for me? I welcome everybody’s (name removed by moderator)ut. Thanks!

with that list you can be either because Anglicans do have a figure head of the church

the only thing we don’t really do is pray to the Saints.

We have confession available

 

[jwakja]

Protestants and muslims do what THEY want not what Jesus asked of them. Not really controversial because someday each and every one of us will stand before Jesus and be told again what was expected of us but this time WE won’t get to argue or do as WE see fit but be judged as HE judges. Mohammed or whoever plays NO role in eternal life only Jesus controls our eternity. IMO, I’d choose what Jesus asked of us through the church HE founded here on earth not some concoction someone made up to suit themselves. The gates of heaven are very narrow.

 

[aicirt]

There are so many Anglicans coming into the RCChurch, I think you owe it to yourself to study the reasons for the move.

Look up Marcus Grodi who hosts THE JOURNEY HOME on EWTN. His show spotlights converts and the reasons why they became Catholic. You can check his archives for Anglican converts.

CONFESSION OF A MEGA CHURCH PASTOR by Allan Hunt is excellent. This is the story of a Methodist minister who converted and the reasons why. Short book about 150 pages but very interesting.

Also call the local Catholic Church and enroll in an RCIA class.

 

[Typist]

Haldren21, I’m pretty sure this isn’t what you’re looking for, but here’s an option you can consider if you wish. Or not, that’s ok too.

If you were interested in U.S. politics, who would you rather talk to? President Obama? Or me, some anonymous guy on a forum? Why talk to me if you could talk to President Obama instead, right?

If you have faith in God, why do you need a church?

Why invest a lot of time in what we highly imperfect endlessly quarreling little human beings have to say, when you could go straight to the top, and talk to “The Boss” instead?

Why settle for anything but the best?

All that said, why listen to me either? Just like everybody else, I’m highly imperfect, and have all kinds of personal agendas, many of which I don’t even understand, which really have little to nothing to do with what’s in your best interest.

Just like most other people in any church you might join, including the esteemed leaders, it’s my goal to be sincere, but there’s probably more truth in the idea that I’m typing this to impress myself with how impressive myself thinks myself to be.

We’re just human beings.

We’re a mess.

Why listen to us?

 

[nagyszakall]

-In the past I’ve been pro choice, but I’m now starting to see that even unborn babies are still alive, as the soul is created at the time of conception. Therefore, I only believe in abortion if it would be dangerous for the mother to have the baby. (i.e. she might die)

even an atheist could come to that conclusion

-I believe that we need to confess our sins to someone

it is written in the Bible. All protestants should agree to this

-I feel that a Church needs a figurehead/leader to rally behind

unless you are a Quaker, you don’t need to be either Anglican or Roman Catholic to feel that way

-I think that frequent holidays and frequent rituals are important for us to renew our faith

also Jews and Muslims will agree to that

-I believe we should pray to saints as well as Jesus

which ones?

-This is a tad bit superficial, but I really like the look of Roman Catholic churches and priests.

I think Anglicans look pretty much the same

-I’m against homosexual marriage, and I think it is wrong to be in a homosexual relationship, but I’m not going to walk up to homosexuals and start preaching to them as that is not my place.
-I feel that divorce is wrong, as when you get married you take those vows for life
-I am against premarital sex.

atheists should be able to come to these conclusions

-I don’t really have an issue with contraception if you can’t support a child, but it is wrong for married couples who can support a child to deny nature.

contraception is totally unhealthy; you need only to have common sense to be against it

So, with all of these, do you think the Roman Catholic or Anglican Communion is right for me? I welcome everybody’s (name removed by moderator)ut. Thanks!

I obviously think you should become Catholic, but you need much more than the reasons you listed.

 

[englishredrose]

Protestants and muslims do what THEY want not what Jesus asked of them. Not really controversial because someday each and every one of us will stand before Jesus and be told again what was expected of us but this time WE won’t get to argue or do as WE see fit but be judged as HE judges. Mohammed or whoever plays NO role in eternal life only Jesus controls our eternity. IMO, I’d choose what Jesus asked of us through the church HE founded here on earth not some concoction someone made up to suit themselves. The gates of heaven are very narrow.

oh really is that so?

I take it then you don’t personally know any Protestants and Muslims to know whether they do actually do what Jesus Wants. If you knew any then you wouldn’t be making such a sweeping statement.

Its amazing what some hearsays gets posted here.

 

[SteveLy]

I suggest you look into the history of the Anglicans.
Also who is the head of the Church? Is it St. Peter and his successors? Or is it the king?

Um…the head of the church should be Jesus Christ.

The bigger question at this point is have you been baptized? If not I would recommend going to your local church and become baptized.

Next keep building your faith regardless of your family’s decision to practice a faith or not. If you have not read the Gospel according to John, it is a good place to begin your Bible reading. Can be found at www.biblegateway.com .

Good for you for initiating this journey!