Nan S:
It bothers me that you are using an opinion poll of perfect strangers as one of your deciding factors.
Don’t get me wrong. We need new priests very badly. This is just doesn’t seem to be a wise way to make such a momentous decision.
Why does it bother you? Every day, hundreds of very personal questions are discussed here involving the most intimate details of people’s lives.
This is pretty intimate, but I don’t see any problem with dude asking for opinions from strangers. Sometimes strangers will tell you a truth that friends have overlooked or you haven’t believed them because you know their biases.
So far I don’t know which way to vote yet. I wanted to hear other opinions and there are some good ones, but the friction overheated my widdle bwain because I’m really oversensitive.
Then again I think the whole world is my videogame sometimes. Therefore this thread is here for my entertainment. Therefore since I can’t answer your question directly, I answer it indirectly in such a way as to “virtually hijack” the thread.
I pray first that you feel absolutely no anxiety, and that you learn to take the criticisms of these people who have been kind enough to post without feeling you have to defend against it. If you are going to be religious, then you might learn about turning the other cheek.
Once we get that established, my dream is that somehow you will end up in a better frame of mind, and will be able to gain from the guidance and wisdom of these kind people.
Alan