Should I rethink my friendship?

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At least now I know I am not overreacting.
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Hi Sean,

I don’t think that you are.

From what I can tell you from my own experiences and from what others have shared with me over the years, I don’t think that this is all that uncommon of an experience.

I guess that I could even say that I probably think that we may all eventually experience this with someone else, at least at some point along the way in a relationship, over the years.
 
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I don’t know whether to confront my friend or just let the friendship fade away.
 
SeanF1989 said:
I don’t know whether to confront my friend or just let the friendship fade away.
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Personally, I would just let it go.

The reason that I’m saying this is because if you stay in a relationship like this and you do talk to the other person about it, usually the other person will tell you that they haven’t kept in touch because they’ve been so busy, or they’ll come up with some other reason as to “why” they haven’t kept in touch, and the relationship will just continue on as before, and won’t change.

From my own experience, you’re left feeling just as hurt, bewildered, and confused as before, because nothing changes.

I have usually found that in these types of relationships, the other person doesn’t seem to be that concerned for the relationship.

If they were, I think that they would invest more time and energy in it on their end.

I speak from my own personal experiences.

However, it’s up to you if you think that this friendship is worth it to you.
 
Well it is the only friendship I have at the moment and it would seem cruel for me to make a new friend and then ditch him.
 
SeanF1989 said:
Well it is the only friendship I have at the moment and it would seem cruel for me to make a new friend and then ditch him.
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As I said, it’s up to you as to what you want to do regarding this friendship. 🙂

I do wish you well with everything.

God bless you! 🙂
 
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