It’s like I was telling another discerner–as the debt goes down, one’s knowledge of the religious life grows. I’m sure God has something for you to learn at each stop. Keep in mind that the Holy Ghost works on attraction. Keep a list of things you like for each one. Whichever one has the longest list is probably the one you’re called to. Another sign is your heart expanding.I’m presently in the process of discerning my vocation and I have found some orders/communities that I am interested in. As it is going to take me about 2 1/2 years to clear my debts before I could even think of applying for entrance to a community, I was wondering if it is too early to arrange visits to the communities I am interested in or should I just go for it now?
Many thanks for your help
I never thought of that! Thank you for the advice Miserissima
It is NEVER too early to visit a community! Even if you were in RCIA and couldn’t join yet, it would not be. I would strongly encourage that you use this time to build up a rapport with the community! You will find that if you do, you’ll come to know the community a heck of a lot better than just one or two visits and you’ll be better informed about your decision if you choose to apply. All I’m saying is if you can afford visits, GO FOR IT!!!I’m presently in the process of discerning my vocation and I have found some orders/communities that I am interested in. As it is going to take me about 2 1/2 years to clear my debts before I could even think of applying for entrance to a community, I was wondering if it is too early to arrange visits to the communities I am interested in or should I just go for it now?
Many thanks for your help
I wish I could afford visits to the CFRs, so in a way, I kind of envy you! LOL!*Defiantly “go for it” The process of entering takes time so yes start now. Visit and see where you are called. There are many things you can do while your debt is being paid down. Write them get to know them. Get to know vocations events in your diocese too. Get involved.I’m presently in the process of discerning my vocation and I have found some orders/communities that I am interested in. As it is going to take me about 2 1/2 years to clear my debts before I could even think of applying for entrance to a community, I was wondering if it is too early to arrange visits to the communities I am interested in or should I just go for it now?
Many thanks for your help
I am now trying to find out the best way to get to the communities that I want to visit, so hopefully I will be able to make some arrangements within the next couple of months (off thread)
Remember to discuss this with your spritual director. Besides members on this forum, s/he is the one can probably give you really good advices if you have discussed with him/her about your discernment.
*Anode my pleasure to share.
I was in debt over $20,000 dollars when I started to discern communities. It gave me motivation to pay off my loans quicker. As you are in the process of paying off your debt, use this time to talk to different orders/communities. By the time you are debt free, you may be ready to enter a community.Many congratulations! They seem to be a delightful community.
Thank You!!.. I have known them for many years (25 to be exact). They are a delightful group of religious and filled with joy. I had occasion to escort two of the sisters during our Catechetical Congress here in Los Angeles. I was amazed at how many people knew them through their book and e mail ministry. Again many thanks in for your kind words. Blessings!
I will hold you in my prayers and thoughts.
I’d also suggest that you also keep a list of anything that you do not like/find difficult about the communities you visit. Then you can think about the reasons for this.
Thank you for your advice, I like the list idea
Bless You… One month to go …thank you to all who are praying for vocations, considering vocations… supporting those with vocations.