I applaud you for your thoroughness, Ronnel. Still, please be careful of committing scrupulousity.
Let’s review — A sin is only a sin if all 3 conditions exist at the time the act was committed:
- You’re tempted
- You freely choose to do it
- You actually do it
== Dreaming about doing something sinful is NOT sinning! ==
At every time that we go to Confession, ALL our sins are forgiven and absolved – not just the ones we confess. However, we are bound to confess EVERY sin that we’re aware of. No consciously holding back.
Afterwards, if we remember a sin that we had done before we’d been to our last Confession but didn’t remember it at the time of our last Confession, we are to confess to it at the NEXT time we go to Confession.
None of this “close to it” stuff applies.
In the meantime, we are still free to receive the Eucharist until that next time that we go to Confession. God’s good that way.