Personally I would rather be a member of a parish with just 10 people that took their faith extremely seriously and followed all the Church’s teachings, than join a parish of 1,000 members who didn’t take their faith seriously enough to know and obey the Church’s teachings. If condemning sin and not “reaching out” to unrepentant sinners causes churches to empty, good riddance. Mass isn’t about affirmation and making people feel accepted, it’s about devotion to God. I don’t remember the last time I heard a homily on homosexuality, cohabitation, or birth control in church; it seems the Church is afraid to discuss these things. It hasn’t even addressed, let alone punished, those who have proudly gone against Church teachings for the past few decades. And what have we gotten for tip toeing around these issues and “accepting people as they are”? Those stats the OP mentioned. :dts:
However, with the internet and all the resources available I don’t think poor catechism is an excuse for being too lazy to look up the Church’s stance on certain issues. Even the atheists know the Church’s position on lots of issues (though because of their lack of faith they never are compelled to find out why the Church teaches what it does). Those who have the gift of faith but don’t use it to search for truth are like the man who buries his talents in the gospels and is punished.