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I would suspect that this is a topic of retrospection would give many here reason to ponder their own respective personal reviews.
Although in the last five years while seeking professional help recovering from gang-rape aftermath I have seen a number of psychiatrist’s and psychologist’s. I have tried hard to keep an open objective mind as to how
their analysis of me may seem legitimate according to their introspection of my characteristic demeanour and how it relates to my Rape-Related Post. Traumatic. Stress. Disorder.
and other related anxieties. For the most part I am (“somewhat”) satisfied with their analysis.
However; being a Heterosexual Male Rape Victim
doesn’t always allow for adequate psychotherapy services respectively attenuated for male rape victims.
I did read one post here at a popular rape victim site in the U.S. that struck me as rather oddly confusing.
The person stated that there was “No” female, male, heterosexual, homosexual, or C.S.A. victims in society…just rape victims inclusive. I find that description too restrictive.
There are unique differences and circumstances that every rape victim identifies with. When I began my recovery five years ago my first psychiatrist’s didn’t believe my past. And he made it quite obvious.
Needless to say I didn’t stay long, three months was enough of that ****. I had an extremely difficult time finding a shrink that was willing to take my case. Statistically; so few male rape victims seek help due to the heavy stigma attached to male rape along with societal bias categorizing all male rape victims unfairly as gay or ex-cons.
In Atlantic Canada the luxury of finding a psychiatrist’s or psychologist that is adequately trained and experienced working with male rape victims doesn’t come by chance lightly, if at all. In the last five years I’ve been bounced around from one shrink to another who all have peculiar behaviours of their own.
You come across good-ones and terrible ones who seem so distant making me wonder why the hell they’re even there doing such a job. Especially after I had laid out my painful vulnerabilities and fears in front of them to analyze and rationalize under their impassive scrutiny.
In light of all this I often question the validity of a Psychiatrist’s and Psychologist secular profession from time to time. Particularly when you think that there so called medical science is barely one-hundred and fifty years old.
It takes a very unique special doctor, nurse, psychiatrist, and psychologist with exceptional kindness, empathy and compassion to truly come to understand people afflicted with pain and suffering.
Indeed any woman, man, or child who sustains the accursed ravagement and abysmal poignancy of a rape affliction.
It can be exceedingly worrisome and disconcerting trying to entrust to any person your own savage affliction relating to a harrowing rape.
There are numerous incompatible psychotherapy situations that fail to recognize the discrepant issues that encompass sexual orientation fears, associated with respective females and males who are victimized by violent rape.
While there are indeed a very limited selective number of very good shrinks; In some critical circles there is reason to suggest that a growing number of shrinks excessively pride themselves into thinking that they have established a utopianized quick fix therapy solution to healing the afflictive mental stigma and pain of their rape patients. When in fact, all they’ve done is put a frail decaying bandage over tormenting wounds of pain and misery;
temporarily lulling to sleep and numbing the anguish from a vast number of woman and men who have suffered one of the worst atrocities conceivable by the human race.
What is it with the assuming overconfidence of many psychiatrist and psychologist ? What with their Freudian, Adler, and Jungian hodgepodge of theoretical hypothesis, suppositions, and speculations.
It shouldn’t be of any big surprise that a number of shrinks today receive critique and disreputable reviews. While I do believe there are empathetically gifted psychiatrist’s and psychologist’s, that lend themselves to having an effective virtuosity.
Definitively however; shrinks are still far removed from adopting a perfected medical science which is still in it’s infancy. Psychiatry and Psychology is a science of associationism, applied to a human cognitive process,
intrinsically structured with rudimentary and underlying half-truths, subject to a variance of representational perceptions and theoretical opinions infused with human fallibility.
Am I saying that shrinks are no good ? Of course not. I’m just saying that it requires prudence in finding the right one.
Although in the last five years while seeking professional help recovering from gang-rape aftermath I have seen a number of psychiatrist’s and psychologist’s. I have tried hard to keep an open objective mind as to how
their analysis of me may seem legitimate according to their introspection of my characteristic demeanour and how it relates to my Rape-Related Post. Traumatic. Stress. Disorder.
and other related anxieties. For the most part I am (“somewhat”) satisfied with their analysis.
However; being a Heterosexual Male Rape Victim
doesn’t always allow for adequate psychotherapy services respectively attenuated for male rape victims.
I did read one post here at a popular rape victim site in the U.S. that struck me as rather oddly confusing.
The person stated that there was “No” female, male, heterosexual, homosexual, or C.S.A. victims in society…just rape victims inclusive. I find that description too restrictive.
There are unique differences and circumstances that every rape victim identifies with. When I began my recovery five years ago my first psychiatrist’s didn’t believe my past. And he made it quite obvious.
Needless to say I didn’t stay long, three months was enough of that ****. I had an extremely difficult time finding a shrink that was willing to take my case. Statistically; so few male rape victims seek help due to the heavy stigma attached to male rape along with societal bias categorizing all male rape victims unfairly as gay or ex-cons.
In Atlantic Canada the luxury of finding a psychiatrist’s or psychologist that is adequately trained and experienced working with male rape victims doesn’t come by chance lightly, if at all. In the last five years I’ve been bounced around from one shrink to another who all have peculiar behaviours of their own.
You come across good-ones and terrible ones who seem so distant making me wonder why the hell they’re even there doing such a job. Especially after I had laid out my painful vulnerabilities and fears in front of them to analyze and rationalize under their impassive scrutiny.
In light of all this I often question the validity of a Psychiatrist’s and Psychologist secular profession from time to time. Particularly when you think that there so called medical science is barely one-hundred and fifty years old.
It takes a very unique special doctor, nurse, psychiatrist, and psychologist with exceptional kindness, empathy and compassion to truly come to understand people afflicted with pain and suffering.
Indeed any woman, man, or child who sustains the accursed ravagement and abysmal poignancy of a rape affliction.
It can be exceedingly worrisome and disconcerting trying to entrust to any person your own savage affliction relating to a harrowing rape.
There are numerous incompatible psychotherapy situations that fail to recognize the discrepant issues that encompass sexual orientation fears, associated with respective females and males who are victimized by violent rape.
While there are indeed a very limited selective number of very good shrinks; In some critical circles there is reason to suggest that a growing number of shrinks excessively pride themselves into thinking that they have established a utopianized quick fix therapy solution to healing the afflictive mental stigma and pain of their rape patients. When in fact, all they’ve done is put a frail decaying bandage over tormenting wounds of pain and misery;
temporarily lulling to sleep and numbing the anguish from a vast number of woman and men who have suffered one of the worst atrocities conceivable by the human race.
What is it with the assuming overconfidence of many psychiatrist and psychologist ? What with their Freudian, Adler, and Jungian hodgepodge of theoretical hypothesis, suppositions, and speculations.
It shouldn’t be of any big surprise that a number of shrinks today receive critique and disreputable reviews. While I do believe there are empathetically gifted psychiatrist’s and psychologist’s, that lend themselves to having an effective virtuosity.
Definitively however; shrinks are still far removed from adopting a perfected medical science which is still in it’s infancy. Psychiatry and Psychology is a science of associationism, applied to a human cognitive process,
intrinsically structured with rudimentary and underlying half-truths, subject to a variance of representational perceptions and theoretical opinions infused with human fallibility.
Am I saying that shrinks are no good ? Of course not. I’m just saying that it requires prudence in finding the right one.