Siblings watching pornography

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Hi my brother plays this game called fortnite and it’s freaking popular but the characters in it aka the women characters and sexualized which made me barely play the game and I block all the character appearances with my hand but my brother on the other side plays the game a lot and Doesn’t do what I do he uses the character sometimes he treats them like there normal characters he told me multiple times that’s it not inapprpriate cause he’s seen me turn of the tv when I see the character and the other part is he watches the game in his laptop and I have seen him be very suspicous when I walked in my room like one time I walked in he immdieatly turn off his laptop and do other suspicous stuff. Should I tell my dad about this but I am not fully sure is he sees pornography and I am really nervous to tell my dad about this too I am very scared to tell him this
 
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I would never ever lust at the characters I got into pornography for like 2 months then realized what I was doing was evil so I stop and confessed it and I never ever looked at porn again hopefully my brother won’t do that thank you for your help
 
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the women characters and sexualized which made me barely play the game and I block all the character appearances with my hand but my brother on the other side plays the game a lot and Doesn’t do what I do he uses the character sometimes he treats them like there normal characters he told me multiple times that’s it not inapprpriate
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If you do not want play the game, that is perfectly fine. This is an area of prudential judgment.

If your parents allow your brother to play the game, then that is their prudential judgment. I personally don’t see anything overly sexual here.
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I have seen him be very suspicous when I walked in my room like one time I walked in he immdieatly turn off his laptop and do other suspicous stuff.
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You are making some unwarranted leaps of logic to assume he is doing something nefarious.
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Should I tell my dad about this
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Tell him what? There isn’t anything to tell. Your parents should be monitoring computer use, applying appropriate filters.

This isn’t your place to tell your parents what to do or to accuse your brother of doing something inappropriate.

I think your views are rather unbalanced. It’s a big leap from “plays fortnite” to “watches pornography”.
 
Snitches get stitches. Don’t rat your brother out, let him get caught on his own.
 
Well my dad doesn’t check what my brother has done on his Xbox or what he does but I am sure that my dad had givin him a talk about masturbation and pornography and further helped him not to see porn I forgot to say that my dad always yells at us not to look when bad inappropriate parts come up in movies
 
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But the game has sexualized characters in it which made me think
 
This is very true. Good advice. People trying to say looking at over-sexualized images is OK are not helping. It is wrong.
 
So I should tell my dad or let him get caught cause I am really not sure if he really is
 
I don’t think my dad would want to tell you my age I am sorry I shouldn’t of said my brothers age
 
I am very very nervous to tell him it will be embarrassing for me too but I think it is very bad for me to tell him I don’t think I could tell him I’m too nervous
 
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I only ask because you seem really young and I think you need to discuss this stuff with your parents and not anonymous strangers on the internet.
 
Sorry it’s just very hard for me to it’s very embarrasing even when it’s not me should I just let my brother play the game even if I think he watches pornography but I am not fully sure
 
Fortnite is not pornography. You don’t need to block your vision.
 
Would it be ok to tell you what the characters look like And why I block my vision
 
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Would it be ok to tell you what the characters look like And why I block my vision
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I’m familiar with Fortnite. It’s not pornography or anything you need to look away from. Don’t ogle the characters, but that goes for anyone even if they’re wearing heavy, shapeless clothing. I’d be more concerned with the cartoon violence.
 
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Ok thank you so much I am just a nervous dweeb who can barely talk about personal events it’s just very hard for me
 
I just will chose not to look at the fortnite characters I will probably never play it a lot anymore
 
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