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Friar_David_O.Carm
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You can do that research, its not that hard. But anyways, each bishop decides where to send his seminarians and he does not always send them to the same place.Then, please, name some. That’s all I’ve been asking, but people have been quick to condemn and (except for Brother JR), slow to help with anything concrete.
What seminary do you know of, specifically, where the men go to class, meet with their spiritual director, attend daily Mass, maybe a few Hours throughout the week (especially on Sunday)…but then can do whatever else they want, except maybe that they have to be back by eleven or midnight or something “reasonable” like that?
I just haven’t found it. Most expect men to be at every meal, “evening prayer” and “night prayer” communally, etc. In themselves, those things don’t take very long and I don’t really mind them in themselves…but that sort of mandatory attendance even at these little events throughout the day…has the practical effect of forcing you to stay on campus because you need to be back for them, so it really puts bullet-holes in the allegedly free time. You can only go out for an hour or two at a time, even though the event itself only takes 10 minutes, because you have to be back on campus for it.
It does limit your radius of motion. It’s not like you can say, “I only have one morning class today, I think I’ll take a day at the museum” or even see a movie or anything like that. Being “allowed” to have outside friends is one thing, but that becomes a lot more complicated when your day is punctuated like that and you have to be at meals (because the main way people socialize is “over lunch” or “over dinner”)…
The conformity of thought is also still disturbing. I was placed by God in 21st-century America, not medieval Christendom. I don’t like an environment of all good-little Catholic boys, all wearing the same clothes, having the same haircuts, doing everything together at the same times. I just need more interpersonal diversity than that.
I think you need to remember that the seminary is not just a Graduate School they are doing something a little more than that there.