Many thanks for your detailed commentary, Kathleen, and sorry I had to snip it in order to accommodate my post.
I think our differences reflect the approaches of our respective faith communities. As far as I’m aware, the “age of reason” (or “age of responsibility,” as I’ve heard it referenced in Evangelical circles) is a concept that is alien to Orthodoxy. I guess that’s because Orthodox Christians are content with mystery and accept that a newly born baby has just as much chance of understanding the Mysteries of God as the most educated of adults. For Orthodox Christians “full knowledge” does not necessarily have to be attendant to belief or respect. It follows, then, that if the field is level as far as conceptual understanding is concerned the baby, because of its innocence, is quite likely to be closer to God – and this state of trusting innocence is to be emulated by the adult, just as Jesus taught us. This does not make Catholic thinking or understanding wrong. It’s just that the approach is different. No disrespect is intended by anybody and that’s the important thing.
My comment about illegitimate children was not meant to show disrespect. If the Catholic Church annuls a Catholic marriage, then (as far as I understand it) the Catholic Church is declaring that there was no sacrament and that the marriage never actually happened. It therefore seems to follow that any children born to the couple have parents that have been formally and publicly declared by the Catholic Church never to have been unmarried. Do you follow my train of thought?
If the Catholic Church states that such children are
not illegitimate then I accept that without demur but reserve the right to consider the whole sequence to be illogical and contradictory (not meaning to cause any offense, if you see what I mean

).
God bless you.
Cordially,
Mick