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The main question here is: How many of you sing the Lord’s Prayer during Mass? Is it taken up well by the assembly, and sung by all?
I realize that this something that is a parish decision. In my case, we are a transient parish with many regulars, but also a lot of visitors as well. About 20 or so years ago, it was decided by that we would recite the Lord’s Prayer. Some disapproved, most could care less. The reason is the same reason why many do not sing at any point in the Mass. The feeling was that if we don’t have them sing the LP, more will be more confident in reciting it, and the many visitors would feel more comfortable and recite it as well instead of stumbling over the words of it being sung. The reciting of the LP continues today and no one comments on it not being sung; well, until yesterday.
I was approached by a nice lady who introduced herself as a parishioner. She ask the question and I gave her the answer similar to what I said above. Then her middle-aged daughter from out-of-state joined us and I politely reiterated what I told her mom. “Well, we sing it at our parish and it so beautiful and everyone sings.” I just responded with a that’s nice and I’m glad it works for you and your parish. The conversation continue and the daughter then wanted to know if I start singing it. I said, “no,” for the reasons I just mentioned. I asked her if they sing the entire prayer straight through to the Amen. She said yes. It continued with me asking if the priest speaks his part before the last part of the LP, for which she said no. Already knowing that I’ve gone to far already, I retorted, “then you are singing the Protestant version.” Of course at that point, they were not happy with me, and as they walked away, I thanked them for stopping up and I may someday reconsider. They politely said thanks.
The other question is: What would you have said or done?
I realize that this something that is a parish decision. In my case, we are a transient parish with many regulars, but also a lot of visitors as well. About 20 or so years ago, it was decided by that we would recite the Lord’s Prayer. Some disapproved, most could care less. The reason is the same reason why many do not sing at any point in the Mass. The feeling was that if we don’t have them sing the LP, more will be more confident in reciting it, and the many visitors would feel more comfortable and recite it as well instead of stumbling over the words of it being sung. The reciting of the LP continues today and no one comments on it not being sung; well, until yesterday.
I was approached by a nice lady who introduced herself as a parishioner. She ask the question and I gave her the answer similar to what I said above. Then her middle-aged daughter from out-of-state joined us and I politely reiterated what I told her mom. “Well, we sing it at our parish and it so beautiful and everyone sings.” I just responded with a that’s nice and I’m glad it works for you and your parish. The conversation continue and the daughter then wanted to know if I start singing it. I said, “no,” for the reasons I just mentioned. I asked her if they sing the entire prayer straight through to the Amen. She said yes. It continued with me asking if the priest speaks his part before the last part of the LP, for which she said no. Already knowing that I’ve gone to far already, I retorted, “then you are singing the Protestant version.” Of course at that point, they were not happy with me, and as they walked away, I thanked them for stopping up and I may someday reconsider. They politely said thanks.
The other question is: What would you have said or done?