Well, first off, when you dress things up in more layers of terminology than is necessary, it gets tempting to minimize them or even justify them. If you call your sins what they are, they get easier to deal with. If you committed the sin of entertaining sexual fantasies, call it that in confession. Don’t dance around it and try to make it into less than what it is. The more honest we are about the nature of our sins, the more distance we can build from them.
Second off, if you do struggle with scrupulosity, you really need to avoid asking these questions online. It’s not going to help you. Speak with your priest.
-Fr ACEGC