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Angel_Bradford
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Keep praying for your sister and her family.
You could ask her if she still believes and if she does, maybe recommend a CHRP retreat or something similar. Maybe offer to look after the younger kiddos for a weekend so she can go?
As my beloved African Americans friends and neighbors would say, “I know THAT’S right!”.Sadly, this is another case of a tradition being softened to make it more palatable, resulting in lack of belief in the necessity of the sacraments.
Assuming that she cares about whether her children save their souls or not — and in charity, that is one assumption I would make — I don’t think it’s too much of a reach to surmise that she does not see it as necessary.Apparently she does not see baptism as necessary for salvation.
On the other hand, it’s entirely possible that she is one of these people who is of the mentality “oh, that would never happen” (i.e., the unforeseen death of a youngster). I’ve known people who think like that — the “it can’t happen to me” mentality, which makes for a very superficially carefree existence — but truth is, it happens every day of the world.
She doesn’t believe in the Catholic Doctrine is the most likely possibility.Any insight why she wouldn’t baptize her other children?
Anything is entirely possible. If the sister wants to find out, let her ask rather then getting all these ideas that could severely damage their relationship and cause great misunderstandings.Assuming that she cares about whether her children save their souls or not — and in charity, that is one assumption I would make — I don’t think it’s too much of a reach to surmise that she does not see it as necessary.