Sisters who wear the Habit

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I have several questions and I believe they are valid. So please be patient with me.
  1. I get the impression that many want to see sisters in habits. That’s pretty clearly stated. Here is my first question. Would you also want the sisters to act contrary to the mind and the vision of their founders, if the founder did not want them in a habit?
  2. My second question has to do with gender. Am I right in assuming that most people here are not particularly interested in the religious habit, just in women in habits, since there are so many threads started about sisters and habit, but none about religious and habit? In other words, it’s ok with you if religious men wore Roman collars instead of habits, even though the Roman collar is technically the dress of the secular clergy or those religious men who do not have a habit.
  3. Those people who want us religious to go back to tradition, would you be OK when 47,000 Franciscan friars walk out of parishes, because we were not founded to run parishes? We began this in the 1800s. Going back to tradition means doing exactly what we are doing today: ordaining fewer men, but accepting many men as non-cleric friars (brothers), pulling men out of parishes and placing them in friaries, taking men out of middle class communities and placing them among the homeless, drug addicts, immigrants, farm laborers, people in crisis pregnancies, hospice, universities, foreign missions and in hermitages, which is how the tradition began and how it was lived until the 1800s.
  4. My last question, are you OK with those communities that never had distinctions between ordained and non ordained, if we went back to eliminating all those distinctions. Everyone is called Brother. Everyone has the same rights and duties. Everyone submits to the superior, not to the pastor. Everyone dresses the same, so that you cannot tell the difference between the ordained and the non ordained. Everyone does the same ministries, so that if you ask to speak to a spiritual director you may get a religious who is not a priest, but is a trained theologian… Would you be ok with going back to those days, as long as the religious men wear their habits? Because that’s the direction in which communities of male religious are going.
I’m not trying to be a smarty pants. I’m really curious to know how many people have thought this through very carefully. When you ask a religious to go back to his or her tradition, you’re really asking for a good thing. Because they should go back. However, it may cost you at a personal level. You may lose some things with which you are very familiar and would like to keep, but cannot be kept as we reach back into our past and bring it forward.

Thank you again for being patient with my silly questions. 😃

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
  1. I get the impression that many want to see sisters in habits. That’s pretty clearly stated. Here is my first question. Would you also want the sisters to act contrary to the mind and the vision of their founders, if the founder did not want them in a habit?
If you review our earlier exchange in this thread, it should be clear that I presented some examples of congregations of sisters where the “vision of the founder(s)” indeed included the habit and that very “vision” was discarded in their (the congregations’) post-conciliar zeal. The point I was trying to make is that the abandonment (or, as it is in some cases, the severe modification) of the habit is often not at all consistent with the founder’s principles.
  1. My second question has to do with gender. Am I right in assuming that most people here are not particularly interested in the religious habit, just in women in habits, since there are so many threads started about sisters and habit, but none about religious and habit? In other words, it’s ok with you if religious men wore Roman collars instead of habits, even though the Roman collar is technically the dress of the secular clergy or those religious men who do not have a habit.
It seems to me that the total abandonment (or severe modification) of the habit has been far more prevalent among female religious (i.e. sisters, but even among some nuns) than it has among male religious.
  1. Those people who want us religious to go back to tradition, would you be OK when 47,000 Franciscan friars walk out of parishes, because we were not founded to run parishes? We began this in the 1800s. …
  2. My last question, are you OK with those communities that never had distinctions between ordained and non ordained, if we went back to eliminating all those distinctions. …
Neither of those question has any real bearing on this thread. Those are matters that strictly concern the “inner workings” of the various Orders and congregations involved. Of course I cannot speak for others, but from what I have seen in this forum and elsewhere (including “real life”) I doubt that many “people in the pew” have strong feelings against any of it. And, IMHO, those who do should not.

Albeit that it is a very visible one, the issue of the habit is a manifestation of the “vision of the founders” yet it one among many and does not, in itself, directly concern the charism of the Order or congregation. Perhaps those last two questions are better left to another thread.
 
If you review our earlier exchange in this thread, it should be clear that I presented some examples of congregations of sisters where the “vision of the founder(s)” indeed included the habit and that very “vision” was discarded in their (the congregations’) post-conciliar zeal. The point I was trying to make is that the abandonment (or, as it is in some cases, the severe modification) of the habit is often not at all consistent with the founder’s principles.
This does not answer the question asked.
It seems to me that the total abandonment (or severe modification) of the habit has been far more prevalent among female religious (i.e. sisters, but even among some nuns) than it has among male religious.
It may just appear that way as it seems there is a focus on women religious out there over male religious.
Neither of those question has any real bearing on this thread. Those are matters that strictly concern the “inner workings” of the various Orders and congregations involved. Of course I cannot speak for others, but from what I have seen in this forum and elsewhere (including “real life”) I doubt that many “people in the pew” have strong feelings against any of it. And, IMHO, those who do should not.

Albeit that it is a very visible one, the issue of the habit is a manifestation of the “vision of the founders” yet it one among many and does not, in itself, directly concern the charism of the Order or congregation. Perhaps those last two questions are better left to another thread.
And other “inner workings” such as habits are open to discussion?
 
If you review our earlier exchange in this thread, it should be clear that I presented some examples of congregations of sisters where the “vision of the founder(s)” indeed included the habit and that very “vision” was discarded in their (the congregations’) post-conciliar zeal. The point I was trying to make is that the abandonment (or, as it is in some cases, the severe modification) of the habit is often not at all consistent with the founder’s principles.
The question is whether or not you want just to return to the tradition of the habit or to the whole tradition of the institute? Because you cannot have one without the other.
It seems to me that the total abandonment (or severe modification) of the habit has been far more prevalent among female religious (i.e. sisters, but even among some nuns) than it has among male religious.
You have not answered the question. The question is, are people concerned about women religious in habit or male and female religious in habit? If the concern is only about women religious, then the concern is gender oriented.

I ask again, is the desire to see religious return to the older habit or for women religious to return to the older habit?
Neither of those question has any real bearing on this thread. Those are matters that strictly concern the “inner workings” of the various Orders and congregations involved. Of course I cannot speak for others, but from what I have seen in this forum and elsewhere (including “real life”) I doubt that many “people in the pew” have strong feelings against any of it. And, IMHO, those who do should not.
It does, because as the saying goes, “Be careful what you ask for.” The Council asked religious to go back to their roots. This included dress, but it included more than dress. The document issued by the council, the documents that followed, and the direct orders that were given to religious communities as they met in general chaptes was to recover everything, if they were going to recover anything at all or to create new institutes.

If they go into recovery mode, the habit will come back, but there will be other things that will come back too. Suffice it to say that some of the things that we have already gone back to has not pleased many people who refer to themselves as traditionalists, because they were not counting on that, such as the movement toward street ministry and the exodus from parishes, such as the Franciscan Renewal movement is doing. That’s over 100 men, in one city, who are not being ordained, but highly educated in theology and philosophy, therefore qualified to be pastors. Instead they are walking the streets of NY serving food in soup kitchens, sheltering homeless and working with at risk youth. Which the rest of the Franciscan family applauds them for it and now we’re all trying to recover this spirit. The CFRs have been an inspiration to the rest of the family.

But many of the faithful are not happy to see them jamming at a youth rally, walking the beat on street with addicts and prostitutes, or seeing them move out of parishes in middle class

For other religious communities it may mean the teaching brother or teaching sister, but only in poor schools or schools for immigrants, not in the middle class Catholic school. We certainly do need our teaching sisters to come to the cities and to the poor rural areas to run schools, more so than suburbia does. I for one hope that when they reach back and recover tradition, they will recover not only the habit, but also the mission to teach the poorest of the poor first.
Albeit that it is a very visible one, the issue of the habit is a manifestation of the “vision of the founders” yet it one among many and does not, in itself, directly concern the charism of the Order or congregation. Perhaps those last two questions are better left to another thread.
In fraternal communnities the movement is to return to the days when you had no distinctions between the ordained and the non-cleric. It was the same habit, the same title (Friar, Brother, Frater or Other), the same ministries, equal authority, equal rights within the community and in ministry too. The only time you saw a difference was at mass, which is appropriate. When you meet them, you do not know who is who. Some people do not like this.

As many have said in other posts and threads, they want to be able to identify a priest. As some of us are returning to tradition, the identification is not impossible, but you do have to ask. The clerical and non-clericamil status are not visible. It does tie in to the question of habits. The habits make the identification more difficult, not less difficult. Do you want the habit that is traditional for that religious community, even though it blurs the lines so that priests are not easily identifiable?

Remember, I do wear a habit. So, I’m not anti habit. I come from a mixed religious family. In fact, we have many kinds of friars, because we have many branches. So we don’t have a uniform habit. While we love the tunic and chord, we also like the freedom that Francis gave us to decide for ourselves what would look like, for some, it’s just a short tunic to the knees with a chord. I believe the Franciscan Knights of the Holy Eucharist wear that habit.

I always like to help people realize that you have to be careful what you ask for and you also have to understand what the Church is requesting. It’s more than a habit. It’s a whole way of living and doing things. This is where new communities such as the Dominican Sisters of Mary are very helpful. They fill a gap that others cannot fill. They can teach the middle class and upward. Whereas, the older communities were founded for the education of very specific populations.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
This does not answer the question asked.
Yes it does, at least from one perspective.
It may just appear that way as it seems there is a focus on women religious out there over male religious.
I think we both know that it is more than an “appearance” of same. And perhaps it also has to do with the fact that a number of congregations (not Orders) of men have never worn a habit per-se.
And other “inner workings” such as habits are open to discussion?
I didn’t start the thread but … uh … the thread topic is Sisters who wear the Habit.
 
The question is whether or not you want just to return to the tradition of the habit or to the whole tradition of the institute? Because you cannot have one without the other.
Yes, I know. Again I refer to the two examples we were discussing earlier. I don’t seem to see that either exactly “returned to their roots” in any way.
You have not answered the question. The question is, are people concerned about women religious in habit or male and female religious in habit? If the concern is only about women religious, then the concern is gender oriented.

I ask again, is the desire to see religious return to the older habit or for women religious to return to the older habit?
As I said in a previous post, perhaps it also has to do with the fact that a number of congregations (not Orders) of men have never worn a habit per-se.
It does, because as the saying goes, “Be careful what you ask for.” The Council asked religious to go back to their roots. This included dress, but it included more than dress. …
The thread topic is what it is. The rest may be interesting, and while it can be said to be related, it’s another topic.
 
Yes, I know. Again I refer to the two examples we were discussing earlier. I don’t seem to see that either exactly “returned to their roots” in any way.

As I said in a previous post, perhaps it also has to do with the fact that a number of congregations (not Orders) of men have never worn a habit per-se.

The thread topic is what it is. The rest may be interesting, and while it can be said to be related, it’s another topic.
I’m getting the impression that you do not want to answer the question, which is fine. This is not a court of law. I was looking simply for yes or no answers.

Do want this and this? or Do you just want this?

That’s all that I was asking.

Thanks for your responses.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
I’m getting the impression that you do not want to answer the question, which is fine. This is not a court of law. I was looking simply for yes or no answers.

Do want this and this? or Do you just want this?

That’s all that I was asking.

Thanks for your responses.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
I started this thread in a way out of nostalgia - because I was raised at a time when Most Religious orders were in Habit in one form or another - I consider the Roman Collar and black attire a Habit just as the more formal Tunics or body length Scapulrs as well as what they symbolize etc. I appreciate your insight and I have found your contributions facinating. I expect many of the same people who come running when any comment whatsoever is made regarding anything whatsoever that changed as a result of Vatican II ( And it always seems to be the same ones) as overly sensitive and or somewhat abrasive and argumentitive. It is for that reason I have refrained from entering the fray. Let me just say that “everything” doesnt always have to be an argument. Why can we not just appreciate what the Religious have to offer.

Thanks again Brother ,

Pax
 
Actually, I’ve gotten the same impression. Maybe best that we call this a draw.
As I said, I’d like to hear from other posters, because I am genuinely curious to know if people understand what they are getting when they ask for a return to the “tradition”.

It’s not just a habit, it’s an entire way of living and doing things that may be very foreign to most Catholics, because unfortuantely, many communities has deviated from this as long ago as the early 1800s. If you go back to the roots, you may be going back to the Middle Ages or further.

That beings said, they are my silly curiosity. Just be patient with me.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
I started this thread in a way out of nostalgia - because I was raised at a time when Most Religious orders were in Habit in one form or another - I consider the Roman Collar and black attire a Habit just as the more formal Tunics or body length Scapulrs as well as what they symbolize etc. I appreciate your insight and I have found your contributions facinating. I expect many of the same people who come running when any comment whatsoever is made regarding anything whatsoever that changed as a result of Vatican II ( And it always seems to be the same ones) as overly sensitive and or somewhat abrasive and argumentitive. It is for that reason I have refrained from entering the fray. Let me just say that “everything” doesnt always have to be an argument. Why can we not just appreciate what the Religious have to offer.

Thanks again Brother ,

Pax
You’re very welcome. I do understand the nostalgia. I grew up during the 50s and 60s. I saw both the older habit, the modified habits and then secular clothing. While I do llike SOME of the older habits, I can also understand how and why they went. There were many little details that went into these decisions that most people would not know. Let’s face it, the minutes of a general chapter is not a public document. The letters that go back and forth between the Holy See and the Superiors General on this question and many others are not public documents either.

The answer to the question as to why some religious are allowed to dress in secular clothing is found in those documents. I know of no religious community that wears secular clothing without the approval of the Holly See. To gain that approval, they had to demonstrate that it was consistent with their charism. That was a requirement when all of us submitted our revised constitutions.

In some cases, the Pope Paul overruled the founders and asked for the change in habits for something that was more contemporary or no habit at all.

We do have to admit that some habits, especially of sisters, were a little over the top. I can’t recall the name of the congregation, but there was a congregation that wore a cornette with a black veil over it. It looked very odd, not to mention very impractical if you have to drive or ride a crowded bus or train.

But if you start another thread on habits, I would suggest that you not limit it to sisters. First, it comes off as gender oriented. Second, it excludes the nuns. Third, the poor sisters take many beatings on these threads. Let’s not target them by singling them out. Many of these women are very holy and dedicated women doing very good work for the Church. One black-eye pea does not make a pod.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Most habits were forms of the types of dress that upper class women wore in the era when that community was founded.

There is absolutely NO valid reason why Nuns have to wear totally out of date and very awkward clothing in order to look like nuns.

Many communities wear a common dress, some wear an abbreviated veil, and all of them are required to wear something that identifies them as a Nun.

If you think that clothing from the middle ages is so appropriate, why don’t YOU wear it?
 
I have several questions and I believe they are valid. So please be patient with me.
  1. I get the impression that many want to see sisters in habits. That’s pretty clearly stated. Here is my first question. Would you also want the sisters to act contrary to the mind and the vision of their founders, if the founder did not want them in a habit?
If a congregation or order had no habit as founded, then no they should not go contrary to the vision of the founder. They should, however, be prepared to offer up the lack of equal respect they receive from the laity which is given other religious in habits. After all, we cannot respect what we do not see.
  1. My second question has to do with gender. Am I right in assuming that most people here are not particularly interested in the religious habit, just in women in habits, since there are so many threads started about sisters and habit, but none about religious and habit? In other words, it’s ok with you if religious men wore Roman collars instead of habits, even though the Roman collar is technically the dress of the secular clergy or those religious men who do not have a habit.
No, you are not correct. Men in habits are equally desirable and preferrable over Roman collars. Secular clergy and religious men who have no habit, should wear the Roman collar.
  1. Those people who want us religious to go back to tradition, would you be OK when 47,000 Franciscan friars walk out of parishes, because we were not founded to run parishes? We began this in the 1800s. Going back to tradition means doing exactly what we are doing today: ordaining fewer men, but accepting many men as non-cleric friars (brothers), pulling men out of parishes and placing them in friaries, taking men out of middle class communities and placing them among the homeless, drug addicts, immigrants, farm laborers, people in crisis pregnancies, hospice, universities, foreign missions and in hermitages, which is how the tradition began and how it was lived until the 1800s.
Absolutely fine. Return to your original charims and apostolates. The sooner the better. The resulting explosion of vocations for the secular priesthood should eventually fill the hole.
  1. My last question, are you OK with those communities that never had distinctions between ordained and non ordained, if we went back to eliminating all those distinctions. Everyone is called Brother. Everyone has the same rights and duties. Everyone submits to the superior, not to the pastor. Everyone dresses the same, so that you cannot tell the difference between the ordained and the non ordained. Everyone does the same ministries, so that if you ask to speak to a spiritual director you may get a religious who is not a priest, but is a trained theologian… Would you be ok with going back to those days, as long as the religious men wear their habits? Because that’s the direction in which communities of male religious are going.
Absolutely fine. FONT]
 
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Marsha_Adams:
I find Marsha’s responses very helpful. I wish that I could have pasted them here. But I don’t know how to do it.

Marsha also makes a valid point. As religious, male and female, move back to their original apostolates, there will be a gap left in parishes. We have to pray that the diocesan clergy will grow in numbers to fill those gaps and that new religious communities will be founded to do so.

One religious community that is doing this are the Dominican Sisters of Mary. Although the Dominican Order is ancient, the Sisters are new. They are not bound to strict observance of the ancient Dominican custom of contemplative women religious. They can fill in the gap in many middle class schools, as other sisters leave to teach in poorer settings.

Another such group are the Fathers of Mercy. They are a congregation of priests, but they were founded to preach. They can go anywhere, poor, rich, missions, city, farms, etc. They are not bound to any targert population or specific ministry. There are communities coming into existence that can fill the gaps as the older communities return to their roots.

It’s going to take a long time. Nothing like this moves quickly. Everytime we try to do this things quickly, the result has been disastrous.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
I do not think that I have encountered many religious in lay clothing that didn’t hold heretical views of the Church.

On the other hand, I have encountered many religious in traditional habits who were not what you would consider “traditional” at all. So, you can’t assume that just because a religious is wearing a full traditional habit that they are what you think they are.

It is true that not a few religious habits were given to the Foundress by either Our Lord or His Blessed Mother. The Society of Mary Reparatrix comes to mind. If I am not mistaken, the Passionists as well.

The other day I received in the mail a calendar from a local religious order with its roots in Canada. In the calendar is a picture of their “Mother General”. The woman is wearing makeup, has jewelry on (and I do not just mean a watch, I am speaking about several gold rings, bracelets etc.), her hair has been professionally coiffed and her outfit did not come from the local Good Will. If it did, this Sister got exceedingly lucky in her hunt for good clothing. Where all of this fits in with their vow of poverty, I cannot say.

Argue all you would like for religious in lay clothing. I do not think it is a wise move. A simple and modest habit is much, much better. Nostalgia has nothing to do with any of this. I have livged long enough to experience both sides of this “issue” - can’t see any good fruits that have come from discarding religious garb.

Lastly, it is no coincidence that the communities that wear full religious habits are the ones that are getting all of the vocations.
 
You’re very welcome. I do understand the nostalgia. I grew up during the 50s and 60s. I saw both the older habit, the modified habits and then secular clothing. While I do llike SOME of the older habits, I can also understand how and why they went. There were many little details that went into these decisions that most people would not know. Let’s face it, the minutes of a general chapter is not a public document. The letters that go back and forth between the Holy See and the Superiors General on this question and many others are not public documents either.

The answer to the question as to why some religious are allowed to dress in secular clothing is found in those documents. I know of no religious community that wears secular clothing without the approval of the Holly See. To gain that approval, they had to demonstrate that it was consistent with their charism. That was a requirement when all of us submitted our revised constitutions.

In some cases, the Pope Paul overruled the founders and asked for the change in habits for something that was more contemporary or no habit at all.

We do have to admit that some habits, especially of sisters, were a little over the top. I can’t recall the name of the congregation, but there was a congregation that wore a cornette with a black veil over it. It looked very odd, not to mention very impractical if you have to drive or ride a crowded bus or train.

But if you start another thread on habits, I would suggest that you not limit it to sisters. First, it comes off as gender oriented. Second, it excludes the nuns. Third, the poor sisters take many beatings on these threads. Let’s not target them by singling them out. Many of these women are very holy and dedicated women doing very good work for the Church. One black-eye pea does not make a pod.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
You are correct - I did not put very much thought into the original post - As I stated it was more nostalgic and as this thread progressed it became apparent that this touched a nerve with many people here and it was never my original intention for people to actually “argue” over it nor was my original post meant to be an all inclusive commentary or definitive statement. Its just that I went to School in San Diego in the 60 's and I recvently went back for a funeral to the same Parish I hadnt been to since the mid 70’s and none of the Sisters wear habits any longer. That was on my mind when I posted it. Perhaps I was naive. But be that as it may , It was not meant as an Indictment of nor was it intended as a derogatory comment. I hope this clears the air.

pax
 
Marsha also makes a valid point. As religious, male and female, move back to their original apostolates, there will be a gap left in parishes. We have to pray that the diocesan clergy will grow in numbers to fill those gaps and that new religious communities will be founded to do so.
I believe that when people SEE religio;us (male and female) in habit out on the street fulfilling their apostolates that ALL vocations will increase. Young men and women will want to emulate what they see and in discerning their vocations many young men will find their way into the secular priesthood.

The habit and collar are so important. If a young person sees someone doing good and loving things, he/she will say in their heart - I want to grow up to be a good and loving person. That is wonderful. But if he/she sees a person in habit or collar doing good and loving things, that young person will say, I want to grow up to be a Sister or Brother or Father.

I remember when I was in my late teens, we lived in a white middle class suburb. We were SDAs and viewed the Catholic Church as the whore of Rome, etc. One day in the late sixties, a sister in full white habit was going door to door in the neighborhood and she was surrounded by children from ages 6 to 9 all chattering to her and loving her. One of them was my niece Susie. “Susie, what are you doing?” I asked in horror. “This is the good sister.” She told me as though that explained everything. This is where the seeds of vocations are planted, Honestly woes anyone here thingk that the children, Catholic and Protestant alike, would have surrounded this women and joyfully followed her (not unlike the pied piper) if she had been in jeans and blouse as so many young sisters wear?
 
I believe that when people SEE religio;us (male and female) in habit out on the street fulfilling their apostolates that ALL vocations will increase. Young men and women will want to emulate what they see and in discerning their vocations many young men will find their way into the secular priesthood.

The habit and collar are so important. If a young person sees someone doing good and loving things, he/she will say in their heart - I want to grow up to be a good and loving person. That is wonderful. But if he/she sees a person in habit or collar doing good and loving things, that young person will say, I want to grow up to be a Sister or Brother or Father.

I remember when I was in my late teens, we lived in a white middle class suburb. We were SDAs and viewed the Catholic Church as the whore of Rome, etc. One day in the late sixties, a sister in full white habit was going door to door in the neighborhood and she was surrounded by children from ages 6 to 9 all chattering to her and loving her. One of them was my niece Susie. “Susie, what are you doing?” I asked in horror. “This is the good sister.” She told me as though that explained everything. This is where the seeds of vocations are planted, Honestly woes anyone here thingk that the children, Catholic and Protestant alike, would have surrounded this women and joyfully followed her (not unlike the pied piper) if she had been in jeans and blouse as so many young sisters wear?
Well Stated. 👍
 
I believe that when people SEE religio;us (male and female) in habit out on the street fulfilling their apostolates that ALL vocations will increase. Young men and women will want to emulate what they see and in discerning their vocations many young men will find their way into the secular priesthood.

The habit and collar are so important. If a young person sees someone doing good and loving things, he/she will say in their heart - I want to grow up to be a good and loving person. That is wonderful. But if he/she sees a person in habit or collar doing good and loving things, that young person will say, I want to grow up to be a Sister or Brother or Father.

I remember when I was in my late teens, we lived in a white middle class suburb. We were SDAs and viewed the Catholic Church as the whore of Rome, etc. One day in the late sixties, a sister in full white habit was going door to door in the neighborhood and she was surrounded by children from ages 6 to 9 all chattering to her and loving her. One of them was my niece Susie. “Susie, what are you doing?” I asked in horror. “This is the good sister.” She told me as though that explained everything. This is where the seeds of vocations are planted, Honestly woes anyone here thingk that the children, Catholic and Protestant alike, would have surrounded this women and joyfully followed her (not unlike the pied piper) if she had been in jeans and blouse as so many young sisters wear?
So your neice Susie is a sister now?
 
I believe that when people SEE religio;us (male and female) in habit out on the street fulfilling their apostolates that ALL vocations will increase. Young men and women will want to emulate what they see and in discerning their vocations many young men will find their way into the secular priesthood.

The habit and collar are so important. If a young person sees someone doing good and loving things, he/she will say in their heart - I want to grow up to be a good and loving person. That is wonderful. But if he/she sees a person in habit or collar doing good and loving things, that young person will say, I want to grow up to be a Sister or Brother or Father.

I remember when I was in my late teens, we lived in a white middle class suburb. We were SDAs and viewed the Catholic Church as the whore of Rome, etc. One day in the late sixties, a sister in full white habit was going door to door in the neighborhood and she was surrounded by children from ages 6 to 9 all chattering to her and loving her. One of them was my niece Susie. “Susie, what are you doing?” I asked in horror. “This is the good sister.” She told me as though that explained everything. This is where the seeds of vocations are planted, Honestly woes anyone here thingk that the children, Catholic and Protestant alike, would have surrounded this women and joyfully followed her (not unlike the pied piper) if she had been in jeans and blouse as so many young sisters wear?
Well said. TY for sharing that experience 👍
 
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