I don’t see the malice that you folks see. Maybe some of you need to live in a religious community for a few years. You find that some of the kindest, holiest and most prayerful men can also be the biggest babies when they don’t like something.
I remember when our superior said, “Let’s take the EF for a test run.” We had a few men who reacted as if you were torturing them. They pouted, whined, dragged their feet on this. They didn’t even have to celebrate the mass. It was going to be done by a Franciscan of the Immaculate. All we had to do was to learn the prayers so as to respond, because we don’t do the silent EF. Franciscan tradition has always been dialogue, even in the Tridentine form.
Anyway, after it was all said and done, these big pouters came out of the mass saying, “That wasn’t too bad.”
I wanted to hit them. For two weeks they didn’t say much, because the superior would crack them if they did, but you could see it in their faces, that they looked as if they were getting ready to go to a funeral.
My point is that human beings can often do this and there is no malice involved. It’s just resistance to something new or even a little fear. If you’re a pastor, you’re probably getting it through both ears.
Ear one: This is great.
Ear two: Why do we have to do this?
Pastor’s brain in the middle: OH GOD . . . why have they put me in this situation?
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
