Perhaps a letter to the CDWDS is in order.
We have to remember that the GIRM means general instructions. There are parts of the mass that no one, not even a bishop can tinker with. There are other things that the bishop can change or allow his pastors to change. The GIRM does not go into all of the details of what is and what is not untouchable. The clergy is expected to have learned this in seminary.
Just to give you a good example of how the GIRM is general instruction and not absolute law. In our religious community we never kneel for the Eucharistic prayer during a conventual mass. We do kneel in a public mass, because it throws the laity off. If you were a guest in our house, you would stand for the Eucharistic Prayer. That’s part of our custom and has been for hundreds of years.
I offer this example, because we’re using the same missal, but we’re not following the same rules. We’re not expected to do so. There are things that are absolutes and things that are not. Those goofy people out there who change the words of the prayers from Father to Mother, that’s an absolute. God the Father is absolute. You cannot change that. You may get away with God, instead of God the Father and this is pushing the envelop. But when you go to Mother, the envelop just fell of the table.
One has to be patient. You may find a pastor who has a particular preference that falls into one of those areas that are not absolutes and his bishop allows him to go with it. I’m not saying that it’s not confusing. I’m simply saying that it does not warrant too much excitement.
The other day, on November 27, I received over 10 PMs from people asking me why the mass on EWTN was the mass of All Saints. I had to explain that this is one of those things that is a quasi absolute. The absolute is that religious orders must follow their calendars and any priest who celebrates mass in a religious house must follow the house’s liturgical calender. The quasi is that the Feast of All Saints on November 1, does not mean that the saints cannot be remembered at any other time of the year. So religious order do it twice, on November 1 and on their own day. What’s the big deal?
We sometimes trigger our own frustration. We should be a little kinder to ourselves. I helps us to be kinder to others.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF :christmastree1: