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What is a good prayer for forgiveness after porn & masturbation? I’m really struggling over the past few weeks and feel hopeless… I look at myself doing it and think “That wasn’t me; that was somone else”. What are some good distractions for when you get the lustful feelings? I have tried doing star jumps 100 of them but that hasn’t worked very well. Should I just run outside screaming out LALALALALALA?
 
What is a good prayer for forgiveness after porn & masturbation? I’m really struggling over the past few weeks and feel hopeless… I look at myself doing it and think “That wasn’t me; that was somone else”. What are some good distractions for when you get the lustful feelings? I have tried doing star jumps 100 of them but that hasn’t worked very well. Should I just run outside screaming out LALALALALALA?
A good plead for forgiveness is the Act of Contrition.

As for the lustful feelings, try not to stay up past 12am as there is nothing to do and you get easily bored. Try praying as well, like saying a good long prayer like Angelic Trisagion from: ewtn.com/Devotionals/prayers/AngelicTrisagion.htm or the Litany of the Saints from: ewtn.com/Devotionals/Litanies/saints.htm. Also, try to play a good video-game that absorbs your time, like the Warhammer 40,000 series.
 
What is a good prayer for forgiveness after porn & masturbation? I’m really struggling over the past few weeks and feel hopeless… I look at myself doing it and think “That wasn’t me; that was somone else”. What are some good distractions for when you get the lustful feelings? I have tried doing star jumps 100 of them but that hasn’t worked very well. Should I just run outside screaming out LALALALALALA?
Sorrow For Sins.
My God,
I am sorry for my sins with all my heart.
In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good,
I have sinned against You
Whom I should love above all things.
I firmly intend, with your help,
to do penance, to sin no more and to avoid whatever leads to sin.
Amen
 
Whilst prayer for forgiveness is good and honourable, one shouldn’t run the risk of relying on it a ‘get out of jail free’ card.

If you are suffering from a particular addiction to something - be it porn or anything else - you should also make materiel changes in your routines so that you don’t place yourself in situations where it’s easy to indulge your habit.

For example, if you are liable to indulge in your habit at bedtime and you use the computer for that purpose, move it from your bedroom. Do it now. Put it in the living room or the attic or somewhere else that’s not conducive to the activity, like in front of a window where, even with the curtains closed, your silhouette would give the game away to any passers by, since it’s my understanding that people with addictions don’t really want to advertise them to strangers, and who would really want to be caught masturbating by the little old lady passing by in the street with her shopping? (If you did, then you’ve got bigger problems)

Empty your sleeping area of temptation. That means posters of depicting scantily clad persons (or worse). It means placing within plain and clear sight pictures of, for example, the Sacred Heart of Our Lord.

As for star-jumps… I don’t think that’s a good idea: you’re just getting the blood and the adrenalin flowing and that’s probably exacerbating the problem. Better to have a freezing cold shower. That will, quite literally, cool your ardour.

Obtain for yourself a book of Morning, Evening and Nighttime Prayer and cultivate a habit of kneeling by the side of your bed each night and saying the Night Prayer for the day. It’s not excessively long and always ends as follows:

*Lord, let us be so united with your only Son that we become worthy to rise with him into new life, who lives and reigns for ever and ever, Amen.

May the almighty Lord grant us a quiet night and a perfect end.*

And then climb into bed and switch out the light.

With those words as the last thing on your mind before you go to bed, it should help you with a firm purpose of amendment, and you’ll be able to comfort yourself with the knowledge that you are participating more fully in the life and the Prayer of the Church. It’ll strengthen your resolve and weaken your addiction.
 
For the sake of accuracy I ought to mention that I made a small mistake with the quote. The first line changes from day to day. It’s just the second line that is the same each night. Sorry.
 
Wether or not you cure yourself of this addiction depends very much on
how determined you are to end it.
In the inspirational movie Fireproof (2008)
the male lead actor had a similar addiction, to porn that is.
He ended up smashing the computor and dumping it in the rubbish
heap, where it belongs, one might add!
Others before me on this thread have already stressed the importance
of tackling the ROOT CAUSE of your problem, It cannot be overemphasized,
it is of paramount importance.
In the Sermon On The Mount, while teaching about adultery,Jesus said, “And
if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you
to lose one of your members than to have your whole bodygo into Gehenna” Matthew 5:30
This is to stress the importance of dealing with the circumstances that makes it easy for one to repeat a re-occurring sin.
Remember , however that in all this struggles, you are not alone,
Jesus is with you.
Be blessed.
 
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