Another question I’m still seeking answers to is how does (or, more properly, how did) the original shunning of the excommunicated relate to our interactions with non-Christians, particularly those who were, indeed, knowingly sinning (at least according to their own standards and what they knew of the Divine and natural laws)?
After all, if shunning of someone within the Church was supposed to produce “medicinal” effects in such a way that it would hopefully bring the excommunicated out of sin, should such not have the same effect even with non-believers in sin of their own? If so, then, why would people have not been advised, when the shunning was still in place, also to avoid non-believers in the same way if they knew they were sinning? Why would Christians not also have been advised to shun non-believers whether friends of associates, if possible, so that that might bring them back away from their sin? Why, again, would we have been prevented trom associating with someone in the Church who was excommunicated for sin but still have been allowed to associate with men outside who may have committed the same sin with the same gravity knowingly? Some here, it would seem, have argued for that distinction. How, indeed, though, could this distinction be argued? How could it stand, especially in the light of what I have just said?
Interestingly, even in Paul’s time, at one point in one of his letters he specifically says that he does not mean that we are not to associate with unbelievers since “we would have to go out of the world”, so, then, he allowd for association with unbelievers, so it would seem. However, his qualification, “otherwise we would have to go out of the world” almost seems concessive in tone. In other words, he seems to be saying, “It is really a necessity that we have to associate with unbelievers in our daily lives because they are everywhere around us, but, if we didn’t have this problem, it would be better not to. Since this is the situation, however, it is fine to associate with unbelievers, because it cannot be avoided.”
Interestingly, though, in another place, Paul basically asks the rhetorical question, “What have I to do with judging unbelivers?”, saying that God will ultimately judge them.
So, how do folks think that this would have had to do with the apparent shunning that was originally in place for believers of Paul’s time? Would believers of his time have been permitted to associate with unbelieving friends, say, and do good to them even if they were guilty of sins similar in gravity to thsoe for which men were being excommunicated within the Church? Why or why not?
Let us take an example. Say a Christian knew, in Paul’s time, an unbeliever who was an adulterer, even though that unbeliever knew it was wrong. Let us say that the believing friend has done all he can to bring the unbelieving friend around, but the unbelieving friend won’t budge. Would the believer still be permitted to associate with the adulterer in other ways, so long as it wasn’t directly contributing to his sin? Would the believer still be permitted to dine with the unbeliever, for example or to do various good to him, basically, to show love to him in various ways, despite his sin? (Let us argue, for the moment, that adultery was something for which excommunication was at this time in force.) So, even though a Christian was prohibited from associating with a so-called brother who was doing this, would he still be permitted to associate with and, indeed, do good to his unbelieving friend who was committing the same grave sin? (Let us also say that the believer is strong enough to avoid falling into the same sin under the unbeliever’s influence.)
What do folks think on all this?
Also, what if the unbeliever above in question is not necessarily a close friend but simply an associate or a less close “friend”. How would all this apply in that situation?
I am indeed also wondering about all this in the context of how Jesus associated with sinners as mentioned in my previous post.
(I know all this sounds very hypothetical, since, apparently, the shunning provision is no longer in effect, but, it can surely have implications for other modern topics as well and, for me personally, it is of historical interest.)