Some tough issues regarding marriage validity and sacramental character

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Below are some doubts of a secular law student who has occasional contact with Canon Law, regarding the presence of sacrament in specific cases of marriage.

As many of us know, marriages are presumed valid unless proven otherwise. Canon Law says valid marriages for the baptised are sacramental. A contrario, invalid marriages wouldn’t be sacramental. A marriage can’t be annuled, it can only be judged null and void ab initio. Therefore, it has always been invalid, if it is declared null (unless the declaration is in error).

My question is: what with the sacrament?

Seeking a declaration of nullity on the grounds of defective consent is discouraged.

My question is: why is it discouraged to check if the marriage is valid if there’s room for doubt? If it actually is invalid, the couple is living in fornication. If it is valid, no force on earth can validly declare it null. But the Sacrament is only in valid marriages. So why is it discouraged to check if the marriage is valid or if it’s invalid and in need of convalidation?

I doubt the Church would think along the lines “Leave it alone if it works. Even if it might be fornication.” So what gives? Shouldn’t we rather convalidate all doubtful matrimonies by default if both parties want to stay married, so that the sacrament would be there?

Another question: how is the sacrament handled in unconsummated marriages (ratum tantum / ratum sed non consummatum)? They are valid and sacramental even before consummation, but can be dissolved. Where does the sacrament go?

Yet another question: what is the construction of Church approval being needed for validity? I understand the licit part, but valid? For example, an uncle can marry a niece with dispensation and the marriage is both valid and licit. But if second cousins marry without dispensation, their marriage can be declared null ab initio with even one party unwilling. So, does the bishop’s dispensation or lack thereof bind God in granting the sacrament on the two nupturients-ministers?

Well, this actually breeds another question: what if a marriage were invalid because of a little formality missing (one witness instead of two or whatever such) and the parties never learnt of that? Would they have never had a sacrament?

Following this question, there is a problem with “voidable” marriages, i.e. ones that are normally valid, but a party or both parties can request one such marriage to be declared null and void. Does the sacrament “leave” if they decide to pursue nullity? Does the sacrament suddenly come about if they decide to drop the charges (not convalidation, just a decision not to press or to withdraw a nullity charge). We can presume validity for the sake of the trial, but presuming a sacrament won’t help facts and won’t bring said sacrament about. So what exactly happens with the sacrament?

Validity can be presumed, but what about the sacrament?

Next: what if it weren’t a problem of a never detected missing dispensation or insufficient consent/consciousness at the point of exchanging vows, but something grander? Let’s say there had been some child-swapping or separation at birth and it shows that the putative spouses are brother and sister (instead of cousins) or even father and daughter (instead of uncle and niece) and it never comes out? Does God abhor the union and never bless it, even though the spouses don’t know anything? Does God start abhorring the union the moment they realise they are brother and sister or father and daughter? Or what if a first spouse who is presumed dead is not actually dead, even though no one knows - does God still abhor the union and never grace it? What if the missing and presumed dead first spouse dies 1 minute after the new wedding and the marriage is de facto invalid, no matter what the formal side looks like (no one knows anything ever, there’s no asking for convalidation because no one even supposed it might be needed)? No sacrament there?

Hmm… so another question: a spouse is presumed dead and long forgotten but shows up alive after 30 years, after the other spouse has fallen in love again and had a couple of children. What is the person supposed to do? Per Canon Law, he/she would have to stay away from any sexual relations with the new spouse, but the marriage would still be presumed valid until dissolved - so the person would theoretically be committing adultery for making love with the newly found first spouse, as well, and a declaration of nullity would be required for them to join up again, even though no renewal of marriage wouldn’t be necessary. Isn’t this a bit weird?
 
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chevalier:
Below are some doubts of a secular law student who has occasional contact with Canon Law, regarding the presence of sacrament in specific cases of marriage.
Do I understand correctly that YOU are the secular law student? I must confess that I too, wonder about such things. (It comes from my math background where rules always apply. Any exceptions are specified and thus, follow the rules.)

All I can say, is there is a reason why good laws are not based on exceptional cases. And thus we need lawyers to help us figure out what to do with the exceptional cases.
 
It sure appears as if annulments in the post Vatican II church are as easy to get as candy. My co-worker just received one, got divorced, his church would not grant him one. He went to his future wife’s diocese, made a “healthy donation” to the church and like magic…An Annulment! I am looking forward to the wedding

Annulments:
1968: 338
2002: 50,000
Research conducted by Fordham University’s Dr. James Lothian
 
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chevalier:
Below are some doubts of a secular law student who has occasional contact with Canon Law, regarding the presence of sacrament in specific cases of marriage.
Good questions. Unfortunately, I think it just gets more confusing the more you look into it.
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chevalier:
Another question: how is the sacrament handled in unconsummated marriages (ratum tantum / ratum sed non consummatum)? They are valid and sacramental even before consummation, but can be dissolved. Where does the sacrament go?
The sacrament of matrimony is repeatable, so the sacrament doesn’t need to go anywhere. Where does the sacrament go if one party to the marriage dies?
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chevalier:
So, does the bishop’s dispensation or lack thereof bind God in granting the sacrament on the two nupturients-ministers?
I would say yes. See my posts #23 and #26 in this thread.
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chevalier:
Well, this actually breeds another question: what if a marriage were invalid because of a little formality missing (one witness instead of two or whatever such) and the parties never learnt of that? Would they have never had a sacrament?
I think is where the principle of “ecclesia supplet” comes in, but I don’t know how.

Again, good questions.
 
Another question for your collection:

In 1982, a man marries a woman because she is the heiress to a large fortune, such that his matrimonial consent is conditioned on her receiving a large inheritance in the near future. Assume both parties are baptized. Is this marriage valid and thus sacramental?

Under 1983 canon law, the marriage would not be valid. However, under 1917 canon law, the marriage is valid if and only if the condition is met, i.e., if the woman does in fact receive a large inheritance. So did God look into the future to see if the marriage was valid? Or did God impart the sacrament of matrimony only when the inheritance was actually recieved?

If God does look into the future to determine whether to impart the sacrament of matrimony, is it possible that He would look to see if the couple stays together or gets divorced, and that couples who stay together might receive the sacrament anyway even if some minor detail in paperwork was not completed?
 
Another question: how is the sacrament handled in unconsummated marriages (ratum tantum / ratum sed non consummatum)? They are valid and sacramental even before consummation, but can be dissolved. Where does the sacrament go?
The sacrament of matrimony is repeatable, so the sacrament doesn’t need to go anywhere. Where does the sacrament go if one party to the marriage dies?

Are you suggesting that the person is married twice to two different partners (in remarriage after death, there’s still one partner at a time)?

Hypothesis 1: Is the Pope granting a dispensation for a validly and sacramentally married person to contract a second marriage for two together? If so, there are two valid and sacramental marriages. What about the duties and rights from the first marriage?

Hypothesis 2: Is the Pope dissolving the marriage? According to the letter of Canon Law, sacramental marriage is a valid marriage between two baptised people. Absent valid marriage, we should be losing the sacrament. So does the Pope actually withdraw the sacrament from that marriage? Does the binding and loosing authority apply?

From hypothesis 2 question arises: Why just consummated marriages? Does the Church derive the criteria from somewhere in the Bible or does it actually move in to dissolve a marriage? This is harder to prove scripturally than the Protestant construct of divorce for adultery…

So, hypothesis 3: Maybe the Pope simply frees the people from vows made before God as he can do in some other cases? Absent the oath, there would be no reason for the sacrament to be there. But the sacrament doesn’t descend on the spouses after consummation. Those who haven’t consummated their marriages yet are still validly and sacramentally married per Canon Law.

From hypothesis 2 question arises: Why just consummated marriages if the problem is of releasing people from their vows? They aren’t vowing to marry, they are exchanging marital vows. So how does consummation matter here? What gives?

And yes, I am the law student. Third year. Had a Catholic marriage law class last semester, which I took to enhance my previous self-taught knowledge. Thanks for reflecting on the issues with me.
 
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chevalier:
Are you suggesting that the person is married twice to two different partners (in remarriage after death, there’s still one partner at a time)?
My suggestion is that at the time the Pope dispenses the bond, the status of each party is the same as his or her status would be if the other party had died. It’s just that the other party is still living.

So, to summarize: There was a valid and sacramental marriage, but the marriage bond no longer exists. The parties are no longer married to each other and have no marital obligations to each other. Each party is free to enter into another marriage, and if they do, then they will have been married twice in their lives, but not twice at the same time because they are no longer married to their previous partner.

Or another way: The Pope is in effect dissolving the marriage.

I kind of thought the sacramental grace of matrimony was a one-time deal that happened at the wedding ceremony. But if it is an on-going deal that endures for the duration of the marriage, then the action of the Pope does terminate this grace.
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chevalier:
And yes, I am the law student. Third year. Had a Catholic marriage law class last semester, which I took to enhance my previous self-taught knowledge.
The extent of my legal knowledge is that I’ve read “One L” by Scott Turow. But the canon law of marriage kind of reminds me of property law - a whole lot of rules that don’t seem to make a whole lot of sense, but are more the outgrowth of thousands of years of historical development.
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chevalier:
Thanks for reflecting on the issues with me.
I hope it will be an enlightening experience for all of us.
 
The extent of my legal knowledge is that I’ve read “One L” by Scott Turow. But the canon law of marriage kind of reminds me of property law - a whole lot of rules that don’t seem to make a whole lot of sense, but are more the outgrowth of thousands of years of historical development.
Yes, and it’s quite worrying. People tend to look on the legal rules and not see the holy sacrament behind them. Is the sacrament of marriage really an added bonus to a valid marriage between the baptised or is it something bigger? Another point is that what’s valid formally (i.e. in the light of court verdicts) is only declared so, not made so, and a faulty verdict doesn’t change facts it’s supposed to reveal. With property, one can get over it and even assume that faulty verdicts although can be reversed actually do create and change reality, but this has no place in marriage. No one in the Church claims that a faulty verdict validly invalidates a valid marriage. And this is worrying. Let’s pray sometimes for all those people who seek, obtain and issue nullity verdicts and those who need to live with the consequences.

The consequences can be sad indeed. I believe that the Church bears responsibility if a person can’t marry his or her civil spouse canonically because of a faulty verdict for the bond. Or for putting asunder a valid sacramental marriage if the verdict is for nullity.
I hope it will be an enlightening experience for all of us.
I hope so. I would be happy if at least one person of those who read it gave more thought to his or her participation in marital trials in Church tribunals.
 
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