In my community in CT, we had a few parishes combine, going from 4 priests (2 each) to one. Some are in danger of closing, but the Dominican church nearby has 3 priests and plenty of visiting ones. From my limited exposure and perspective, it seems the communities like theirs do better than the diocesan priests, at least in our area.
On TV, EWTN’s nuns are overflowing (the attraction via the TV would only last so long and the women stay) and the friars in Fr. Groechel;s Franciscan group in NYC went from 15 to over 100 in a few years. I suppose the calling to those groups takes more sacrifice, the new members are very motivated and love not only God but their particular type of order. Diocesan priests have a great calling too, but bogged down by all the paperwork, meetings, a sometimes needy or apathetic parish, you get overwhelmed alone. I know one priest that told me when he wasn’t “assisting” anymore and they wanted him to be the parish priest alone, he asked to be a hospital chaplain. He loved it and later in his late 50’s settled into a parish that practically ran itself. I asked him why he didn’t like it as much. He said diocesan priests were the thing most guys became in his day…the lack of the vow of poverty, the 3 squares and a warm bed, housekeeper, secretary, etc. made it more appealing and you could do “priestly things”. The priests met for bowling, pizza, etc. and you had your own community. Now, it’s “I’m busy, I need a vacation, I have to be everywhere at once”.
I keep praying for vocations and hearing of 2 districts with 15 men going into the seminary is heartening, but we have a long way to go…I have faith though that the church will prevail through these growing pains and be more devout because of it.