To th OP. My daughter (12) is claiming to be an agnostic, and doesn’t want to make confirmation.
This is what we do. She comes to mass with us. I told her we are Catholic family. She participates in family prayer time, passively but she does cross herself. She was receiving, but she was doing so to make us happy. I told her she should not receive if she doesn’t believe.
I’m not sure where this came from. We are practicing, she’s in a pretty good Catholic school and our parish is orthodox. She gets good grades in Religion class. Her good friends are altar servers
I pray with her at night. She listens, but when I ask if she wants to pray she says no. I’m heart broken. She’s a good girl, smart talented etc. I can’t understand how this happened.
Keep her in your prayers.