I hope this isn’t too off topic, and maybe it should be another thread, but I have a question.
As far as I know, this is not something that is in the rubrics, and based on some of the info in this thread, it is just a “pious custom” that has been kept by some Hispanic Catholics, so how come it’s OK to do?
So many times we see threads that are anti- hand holding during the Our Father, anti-orans position, anti-sign of peace for the laity, etc, etc, etc., none of which are prescribed in the GIRM, and are often called “abuses”, why isn’t this?
Isn’t this akin to the same thing? Or is it because it is “cultural” and no one wants to be accused of being intolerant?
I really mean no disrespect, I am actually curious. How can one “innovation” be an abuse, but another be a “pious custom”, or does it all depend on the person who is objecting?