Hello, I have the gift from God of speaking in tongues and if anyone has ever been to a steubenville retreat, you know how they are charismatic about it. Since my Dad and older sister were involved with these retreats, I knew of the gift for a long time. On my first retreat I really wanted it and expected to get it, but I did not. The next retreat was the same, and the next, I finally let go of my own ideas concerning it. That God could do what he wanted, and if the gift is from God I shouldn’t be trying to force it. The retreat after the next (the last one I went on) I received the gift after the priest came around with the monstrance during adoration. I had received it about a month before at a more charismatic mass even though I wouldn’t label it as that, but after the mass we were giving thanks to God, and I was really happy and started to speak in tongues. So I was weary of it for a while, thinking that God may not have been the center of it, or maybe it was just me. But when I got it at the last retreat, I knew then that I actually did have it, God was at the center of it, and that I can not ‘will’ it on my own, since it comes from God.