Yes, the decedent need not be buried in the cemetery where you will offer the prayer for him. My parents are buried in another state, but I offered a separate day’s plenary for each of them in the cemetery where I live now. Also my grandparents. I think I got them all covered, when you consider that I have 8 separate days to make the offering, one for each person, and I’ve done this for a couple years now = 16 persons.
Yes, your confession is still good.
Good for you, wonderful

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So, I will try to walk to the cemetary again this afternoon… except if I really don’t feel good, I got a headache and the sun is still quite strong these days… If I don’t make it, I could still go to another church that happens to be open in the evening and say the other prayers there, right, even if I took communion in the morning? Or does the intention with communion have to be with one specific indulgence?
Hm. Oh,whatever, I’ll try to make it to the cemetary this afternoon, if I don’t make it, still time to think of something else.
No need to be so nervous about these things. I am -FIGHTING HARD- working on overcoming scrupulosity and have to get a handle on my feelings about faith related things. LOVE is what counts!! And no need to fear all the possibilities of what might all go wrong, because the Lord is my shepard (Psalm 23)

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The offering for the Pope probably are best said in a church… or at the cemetary? Well, going to the 10.30 mass this morning, so if I am little early I’ll pray for them there.
And that is all, right? I’ll be going to communion during mass (no problem using the same mass for the Sunday obligation as for the intention, right?), confession is done… attachment to any minor sin… well, that only God knows if there is anything in me

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And wonderful that you have been making it to the cemetary so often. Where I lived before, that would have been easy. But to make the walk of almost an hour each way also on days when I work, or pay the bus fare each day with an already tight budget… would be a bit much; I must be careful now to not star feeling scrupulous/guilty about not going every day. I will try today, health and circumstances permitting (this is not a promise, but a decision I am taking, and I am free to change my mind. Saying this because I know how scrupulous I have been in the past. Must do this in freedom and love!!!

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Kathrin:heart: