Spending the nite (separately)

[idontknow]

Ok, I am going to see my girlfriend now and the weather isn’t too great (It is snowing some and there is a chance of sleet). She lives at least an hour and a half from me and we don’t get too see each other very ofter (or at least not yet).

So with the weather, it is questionable whether I should be going, but the highways seem fine. Not for sure about getting back. We are both 25 and have good morals (waiting until marrige for relations).

I was just checking some opinions of others about spending the nite at my girlfriend’s house (sleeping in the other room). I’m not sure how I feel about it. I don’t particularly like the idea, because I don’t want others doing anything (she mentioned jokingly if had to, could park the car at the school). Also, she does have a friend that is married (whom I haven’t met).

So I mean I just thought I’d see if others feel it would be ok to spend the nite, sleeping in the other room (of course nothing wrong would happen). Or is that something I shouldn’t do. I’m not sure if I like the idea or feel it is ok, but I am very sensitve about moral things. But I mean, we are bopth adults and her parents would trust us as we have both been raised to know what is right and wrong.

Please let me know what you think, Thanx.

 

[rusty20]

I would say that it would be fine, given the weather. However, it would be preferable to drive home if you’re that close to home.

I don’t really see anything wrong with what you are looking to do (though I wouldn’t make it a habit). You are going to be in different rooms, so that would remove the urge to deny chastity.

For instance, I stayed at my girlfriends house for a few days over Thanksgiving, cause she lives 6 hours away. We were in different rooms at her parents house, and I see no problem with that. Although it may be different if she lives alone…

 

[mom4truth]

Temptation is such a tricky thing. Just be careful since you have come so far in your purity with each other!

Blessings,

 

[Matrix_Refugee]

:: Belts out a few bars of “Baby, It’s Cold Outside”::

I don’t see anything wrong, as long as you are staying in separate rooms. The tricky part might be, especially at this time of the year, if things like this keep happening, and in that case, the most you can do is probably put the situation in God’s hands and ask Him to keep you both on the straight and narrow.

 

[idontknow]

Thanx for the responses. The temptation isn’t an issue, trust me…nothing bad would happen. Our first kiss took us quite a while to work up the nerve to finally do it. We are both new to this and scared to take steps kind of. Plus we both know we wouldn’t do anything (with the whole it would have to be in the other room anyway, just for me to feel somewhat comfortable). As I am still not sure how comfortable I would be even staying in the other room.

But thanx for the help. I have asked God for advice already.