To find a priest for a SD/Confessor, say a prayer to the Holy Spirit. Then ask you parish priest for reccomendations. If you can’t find any there, then ask the Diocesean Office for ideas too. Make sure the priest is Orthodox [meaning faithful to the Magisterium].
Usually one meets with an SD once a month, however it can be more, but it is set up between the SD and the person who is being directed.
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