HI George, I am looking for accountability, answers to specific questions that come up re the spiritual, and guidance. Since our lives are so fluid things come up from.time to time. I have really good Catholic friends who I trust but at times I need the guidance of a priest, not someone without faculties.
Well, a Priest I know managed to engage a Spiritual Father, and obedience for him was strict. When he went to him for confession, he went and would be told through a translator what his sins were, what to do differently, and be given absolution and a re-structuring of his understanding, and would leave, without having said a word… But this kind of Spiritual Father is really really hard to find, and when identified, they do not easily consent to become one’s Spiritual Father… He would see him every few months…
You might do well to find someone who simply is knowledgable in the spiritual matters you are engaging - Someone who has walked the walk you are beginning to walk, at least further than you yet have done… And these are fairly rare, but more accessible, and will consent more easily to hearing your issues and sharing their experience in helpful ways…
These folks may or may not be priests - We have many Priests whose Spiritual Fathers are not Priests, but simple monks with Gifts… Or even lay people with Gifts… And Gifts differ from person to person, but indicate a degree of attainment… They are usually hidden by those who have them…
Accountability is normally a feature of your confessional Priest, and in the EOC at least, this comes through regular confession - The issue here being that the Priest needs to be developed to a degree that permits accountability… No small matter…
I did not understand your term “a priest, not someone without faculties.” Do you simply mean the Charism of being able to grant forgiveness of sins? But finding a brother/sister with similar spiritual intent to your own intent and developing a bond with him or her that is a kind of spiritual partnership might prove beneficial… Fluid lives normally need simple confession and repentance - The daily dramas in monasteries normally come with the obedience of prayer with labors, and the consequent confession of thoughts every day… A “spiritual partner” is someone who watches out for you as you do for them - Where you kind of “have each other’s back”, especially on matters of ‘going off the rails’ of spiritual deception… Finding THAT person is no small matter either… And spiritual deception, prelest, can happen easily, with bad consequences…
So may God bless your walk…
Good to see someone attending to important things…
geo