Read this
saintsworks.net/books/St.%20Francis%20de%20Sales%20-%20Introduction%20to%20the%20Devout%20Life.pdf
The Introduction to a Devout Life by St. Francis de Sales.
It is a spiritual guide for us his spiritual sons and daughter.
For a spiritual guide, you have to choose a holy priest, who lead a good life, otherwise he can lead you astray. In this present moment, that is very rare
I for the present, have 4 confessors, and no spiritual directors. Because when I try to ask spiritual direction from those 4 confessors, either they are busy, or they will not permit me to do corporal mortifications, which is a
bad spiritual direction.
Read the Diary of St. Faustina Kowalska - Divine Mercy in My Soul, and find out how St. Faustina got his Spiritual Director (through prayers, and waiting)
saintsworks.net/books/St.%20Faustina%20Kowalska%20-%20Diary.pdf
You can also listen to Mother Angelica, she will give you good spiritual direction
youtube.com/results?search_query=mother+angelica&aq=f
Imitate the saints
I know you are talking about real spiritual direction, but in this age, to find a good one, that will lead you to holiness, is rare. Because in that matter, the priest need to be holy, or in the path of holiness himself.
May the merciful Jesus bless you
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