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What is meant by spiritual pride?
St John of the Cross sums it up nicely in my opinion:What is meant by spiritual pride?
Excellent and to the point. And I’m feeling like I have done this sooooo many times…confession today, anyone?St John of the Cross sums it up nicely in my opinion:
“Some souls suffer from another kind of spiritual anger. They watch over others with a kind of restless fervor, perpetually annoyed by the transgressions they perceive. The impulse arises to reprove the other souls in an angry way. Sometimes they even indulge this nasty urge, elevating themselves as masters of virtue. This is all quite contrary to spiritual meekness.”
Me!!Excellent and to the point. And I’m feeling like I have done this sooooo many times…confession today, anyone?![]()
Holly, I also struggle with spiritual pride myself. But I find it hard to break out of it. For example, if i think differently from a catholic ( i was born and raised catholic) or challenge its teaching I become demonized as a cafeteria catholic or liberal catholic, or worse told I’m going to hell. This creates shame, simply for having my own opinion. Over the years i have distanced myself from the church, although i have been trying to make my way back in, but the blocks are still there. I think that when a religion says they are right about everything with no openness to change and no flexibility, it contradicts humility. So when i try to re-engage with the church I feel I bump into this imaginary wall that keeps me out, because I know I have a difference of opinion with some of its teachings and don’t want to be demonized.I struggle with spiritual pride myself which is really weird since I have really bad depression. You wouldn’t think that someone who was depressed would have pride as well but I do. Well, at least I wouldn’t think that. I guess pride and depression seem kind of contradictory but then again the human mind is a very complex thing.
It is not pride to recognize the truth of a thing. Thus, to assent to the truth of the Catholic Faith and to witness to the Truth - who is God revealed in Christ - is living authentically. To say that there is no truth is to live relativistically and with a false humility. True humility rejoices in the truth while knowing its dependence on the One Who Is True. Pride, otoh, leads to the self-worship of one’s own predilections.On a larger scale, how does institutional religion escape this, Catholics think they are right and have the fullness of truth, the Jewish faith think they are right, Islam thinks it is right…etc. and none of them believe that they are suffering from spiritual pride because they think they are right. Isn’t that spiritual pride?![]()
But the Church doesn’t say it is right about everything, now, does it? It does, however, say that it is right about Christ’s Self-revelation and what He has given to the Church to proclaim regarding Faith and Morals for our salvation. That doesn’t contradict humility, but, otc, strengthens how one can live in imitation of our humble Savior (Who, after all, declared Himself to be the Way, the Truth, and the Life).I think that when a religion says they are right about everything with no openness to change and no flexibility, it contradicts humility. So when i try to re-engage with the church I feel I bump into this imaginary wall that keeps me out, because I know I have a difference of opinion with some of its teachings and don’t want to be demonized.![]()
Sometimes I wonder if there is any virtue in being one of the bitter faithful. Perhaps we (yes, I am one) are no better than the cavorting sinners. At least the sinners are being honest with themselves.St John of the Cross sums it up nicely in my opinion:
“Some souls suffer from another kind of spiritual anger. They watch over others with a kind of restless fervor, perpetually annoyed by the transgressions they perceive. The impulse arises to reprove the other souls in an angry way. Sometimes they even indulge this nasty urge, elevating themselves as masters of virtue. This is all quite contrary to spiritual meekness.”
I think this is exactly why Jesus gave us so many pictures of an allegedly inferior person demonstrating greater faith than those who were thought of as righteous. Church leaders. The only time I remember Jesus getting upset over sinners was in the case of the moneychangers; other than that Jesus never raised his voice to sinners to tell them they were sinners, but he raised his voice aplenty at those who would criticize those very people. He constantly and enthusiastically attacked pretenses, haughty attitudes, condescension, etc. more than crimes of temptation or flesh. (And no I am not suggesting sinful behavior does not matter.Sometimes I wonder if there is any virtue in being one of the bitter faithful. Perhaps we (yes, I am one) are no better than the cavorting sinners. At least the sinners are being honest with themselves.
Oh, to have fidelity and to praise God for this grace! It’s a hard lesson to learn; I guess that’s why life takes so long.
AlanMy friends ain’t the way I wish they were
They are just the way they are
And I will be my brother’s keeper
Not the one who judges him
I won’t despise him for his weakness
I won’t regard him for his strength
I won’t take away his freedom
I will help him learn to stand
Are we submitted to the will of God? If we are not, we are living in pride.Holly, I also struggle with spiritual pride myself. But I find it hard to break out of it. For example, if i think differently from a catholic ( i was born and raised catholic) or challenge its teaching I become demonized as a cafeteria catholic or liberal catholic, or worse told I’m going to hell. This creates shame, simply for having my own opinion. Over the years i have distanced myself from the church, although i have been trying to make my way back in, but the blocks are still there. I think that when a religion says they are right about everything with no openness to change and no flexibility, it contradicts humility. So when i try to re-engage with the church I feel I bump into this imaginary wall that keeps me out, because I know I have a difference of opinion with some of its teachings and don’t want to be demonized.![]()
Luke 18:
10 Two men went up into the temple to pray: the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican.
11 The Pharisee standing, prayed thus with himself: O God, I give thee thanks that I am not as the rest of men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, as also is this publican.
12 I fast twice in a week: I give tithes of all that I possess.
13 And the publican, standing afar off, would not so much as lift up his eyes towards heaven; but struck his breast, saying: O god, be merciful to me a sinner.
Although most people are not going to say, I’m glad I’m not like so-and-so, a lot of times we have underlying spiritual pride which we might not be aware of. Sometimes the desire and zeal to help save souls can lose some of its purity and devolve into just pride.14 I say to you, this man went down into his house justified rather that the other: because every one that exalteth himself, shall be humbled: and he that humbleth himself, shall be exalted.