A flaming arrow could be a message to a person that is destructive, such as “you are a failure.” It is a meme that can harm a person (it can help too but that’s another discussion) and all I have to do is stand on the Word to quench it. For example, “OK, Satan, nice try but I know my value in the eyes of my Maker, I love myself, and your words don’t sting because they have no substance.” If you’re not that confident in prayer, you can fall back on the promise of the name of the savior, like, “In Jesus’s name, I reject your attempts at turning me against myself.”
Alan
Let’s say I look at something I have done, and I say, “OneSheep, you are a failure”.
Let me take a shot at translating that “flaming arrow”:
“OneSheep, you have not met your own expectations concerning your performance in this task. This clearly breaks rule number 548, which states that you must perform to perfection, which has been modified to tolerate the most minimal of performance standards, and yet you have still violated. In addition, you have violated rule number 11, which says that repeated violations of any rule, despite pledges to improve, are an additional violation. For this reason, you are to self-condemn, in order that you will be motivated to improve your future actions.”
Now, I could say to this “flaming arrow”:
“Away from me, you @%#!”
or I could say:
“Okay, I feel guilty about not doing as well as I could have. It’s okay to feel guilty, and it’s okay to have a rulebook, but I don’t have to be a slave to it. Sure, it can be motivating to self-condemn, but I’m going to forgive the compulsion and move on. I am going to focus on Love, especially love of others, to motivate myself rather than guilt, though, because the guilt can really bog me down.”
Does this illustration make the point? This way, my mind turns to acceptance, and this is a much better way, to me, to walk through my day. “The yoke is easy, and the burden light” so to speak. I have forgiven myself for poor performance, and I have forgiven my own ego for the self-criticism.