OK, let me try it this way. Look at what the masters teach about detachment. It’s detachment from material things, but it does not stop there. It’s also detachment from the world around you, including the Church . . . not that you cease to be Catholic. That’s not what they meant.
What the masters did and taught was to focus on what is immediate and avoid all forms of conflict, argument and confrontations.
To many Traditionalists, not just them, not to challenge and question everything that they feel is wrong, is a form of indifference. To the spiritual masters, it’s detachment. They cultivated trust in God’s Providence to provide for the needs of the Church and they trusted the popes and bishops to find their way. They prayed, went about their business and when they saw something that they thought was wrong or made them feel uncomfortable, they checked with the Church. If it was allowed by the Church, whether it was prudent or foolish, as far as they were concerned, it was no longer their problem. Their problem was to work on their holiness and to serve those who were before them.
Many people misunderstand this attitude to be indifference or even giving in to wrongs. In fact, it’s far from indifference. It’s based on complete trust in Providence and in the Church’s ability to bounce back. The Masters teach us to follow the truth, remain calm, trust God and avoid anything that takes away from inner silence or distracts us from the present moment in our lives.
If you’re a sister and and your duty is to care for the homeless, whatever is happening down the street at the local parish has nothing to do with the homeless. You focus on the homeless. That’s the duty of grace of the present moment.
If you’re a mother and you have a family or a family and job, that’s your grace of the present moment. St. Jose Maria Escriva wrote a great deal about this for the laity.
A preacher has a duty to preach the truth. That is his grace of the present moment.
Each person has to detach from the other things that are happening in order to take care of the present moment with the greatest love and attention to duty. This is not being indifferent. This is being detached. I guess that one could all it a Holy Indifference. This is not an indifference that says, “I don’t care about abuses in liturgy.” This is an attitude that says, “This is not my task. My task it . . . Therefore, I leave it in God’s hands to send the person who can fix it. Then you walk away and attend to your task.”
People at the ends of the spectrum tend to get pulled into battles and worries that they can’t fix and feel that there is something wrong if they let it go and let God take care of it.
I can give a simplistic example from my life. I help at a parish. When I get there on Sundays, there are people greeting each other and walking around before mass begins. I can’t change that. It’s not my job to change it either. I’m not the pastor. I go into the Church, quietly kneel before the tabernacle and close my ears and eyes to everything around me. I just turn it off. Suddenly, mass is starting and I have no idea what happened around me. As the mass goes on, I’m very focused on the scriptures, the sermon, the words of the prayers, the sacrifice and the communion. I never notice any of the things that people often talk about, what someone is wearing or not wearing, that a kid is texting, that someone else is doing some other strange thing. I actually never see any of it. We were trained to detach and focus on the grace of the present moment. At that moment, nothing is more important than the liturgy. When I go to my pregnancy center, nothing is more important than the person whom I’m serving. You can blow up the town with a nuclear bomb and I might miss it, because the person in front of me is the most important thing in the world at that moment. OK, to tell the truth, I may notice a nuclear explosion, but you get the picture, right?
Does this help?
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF