If Mary is such a stumbling block, why is it that even the leaders of the Protestant Reformation had no difficulty whatsoever in according to her more honor than some (not all) Protestant posters here?
Again, Martin, I recommend that you read St. Louis De Montfort’s “True Devotion to Mary”. Start with Chapter III, Article One “False Devotion to the Blessed Virgin and False Devotees”. II Scrupulous Devotees: . . .“are those who fear to dishonor the son by honoring the mother, to abase the one in elevating the other. They cannot bear that we should attribute to Our Lady the most just praise which the holy Fathers have given her. … as if the one were contrary to the other, as if those who prayed to our Blessed Lady did not pray to Jesus Christ through her. . . .for the more we honor the Blessed Virgin, the more we honor Jesus Christ, because we honor Mary only that we may the more perfectly honor Jesus, since we go to her only as the way by which we are to find the end we are seeking, which is Jesus.”
It is, in fact, a more humble devotion, to ask our Lady’s help in approaching Jesus, than it is to approach Jesus “on our own.” Of course we can, but we know well that our Lord looks for us to be ‘meek and humble of heart’, and that he humbles the proud and exalts the lowly.
Especially in these times of pride and superiority, with everyone ‘presuming’, and with few even believing that sin exists, and assuming that they are ‘worthy’ of heaven, it seems to me that more people need a good heavy solid dose of humility, obedience, and dependence on Christ. He chose Mary not just ‘for one time’ as His Mother but for all time. What makes you think that her motherhood ‘ceased’ in 33 AD? Why would she be any less His Mother? Why would we want to deny her and think that it would please God, anymore than it would please you, should you accomplish something worthy, to be told that not only did your mother not have any part, even it was just acknowledging that she gave you birth (no credit even for her care of you as a mother, or the fact that it was probably due to her teaching and care that you were able to develop your talents), but that you would be told even worse–that she was a terrible mother, that she was “taking away credit from you” just by existing, etc.?