(cont from previous post)
Objection: While Jesus was on the cross, why didn’t he commit his mother Mary to one of his brothers instead of John? If he had brothers and/or sisters, shouldn’t Jesus have committed her to them? Since he didn’t, therefore it must mean that he didn’t have any brothers and sisters.
John 19:226-27, “When Jesus therefore saw His mother, and the disciple whom He loved standing nearby, He *said to His mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” 27 Then He *said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her into his own household.”
Answers:
First, Jesus was separating himself from his mother, breaking the earthly ties (2 Cor. 5:16), and committing her to the one male disciple, John the Apostle, who was actually present and who apparently showed the greatest love for him by being there and possibly risking his own life in so doing. After all, everyone else had abandoned him.
“But all this has taken place that the Scriptures of the prophets may be fulfilled.” Then all the disciples left Him and fled," (Matt. 26:56).
"Then Jesus *said to them, “You will all fall away because of Me this night, for it is written, ‘I will strike down the shepherd, and the sheep of the flock shall be scattered,’” (Matt. 26:31).f
“I have become estranged from my brothers, and an alien to my mother’s sons,” (Psalm 69:6). Psalm 69 is a Messianic Psalm.
In committing Mary to John, he was providing the best for Mary by not committing her to the siblings who had abandoned him. Also, he gave John a higher place than he gave to Peter regarding Mary. Notice that Jesus told Mary first to look to John, not John to Mary. Mary was given into his charge, not him into hers. This dispels any idea that Mary has any supremacy in the church. We later see in Acts that Mary took her place among (not over) the believers at a prayer meeting. “These all with one mind were continually devoting themselves to prayer, along with the women, and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with His brothers,” (Acts 1:14).
Second, there is biblical evidence that Jesus had siblings.
Matt. 13:55-56 says, "Is not this the carpenter’s son? Is not His mother called Mary, and His brothers, James and Joseph and Simon and Judas? 56 “And His sisters, are they not all with us? Where then did this man get all these things?”
Third, it is possible that desired to have John take care of Mary (due to his faithfulness) instead of his brothers who had abandoned him (Matt. 26:31,56), it was necessary for Jesus to specifically declare what he wanted. This declaration can be seen as evidence that Jesus was speaking to make clear his intention that John take care of Mary, not his own brothers.
carm.org/catholic/mary_Matt1_25.htm