Split from "A question for some Protestants who try to proselytize Catholics": Are Catholic priests "Forbidden to Marry?"

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There you again: I’m saying that you force celibacy on men.
No,no,no,no,no Dokimas. Dokimas, has it ever crossed your mind that some of those men who are called by God to be priest,already could be CELIBATE? Hhmmmm?
Who forced them to be celibate before entering the priesthood? Mom? Dad? Grandma?
You’re getting so good at this; you got me again. Wow. Don’t waste time on such easy prey as me. Move on to harder prey. I’m way below your intelligence.
Whatever Dokimas! You cannot accept the fact it is very possible for someone to remain celibate prior to being a priest or as a discipline or simply remaining celibate as a lay person. Do not let your pride hit you on the way out…👍
 
Whatever Dokimas! You cannot accept the fact it is very possible for someone to remain celibate prior to being a priest or as a discipline or simply remaining celibate as a lay person. Do not let your pride hit you on the way out…👍
Okay, let me not be sarcastic.

Wrong again. You can not find one thing I said that can be twisted into saying I think that it is possible for someone to remain celibate prior to being a priest or as a ciscipline or simply remaing celibate as a lay person. Do you know why? Cuz I NEVER said it or implied it. In fact, I don’t think the statement you say I believe is true.

For you and PR, a weak argument is one that tries to belittle what someone is saying by misquoting, misrepresenting, distorting, etc.

Sacrasm comes out of frustration of being misrepresented and distorted, FYI, Nicea and PR.
 
Celibate, not celebate. I keep misreading it as “celebrate”! 🙂

As to your comments, here’s an excerpt from this tract (all bolding is mine):

"In fact, the Catholic Church forbids no one to marry. No one is required to take a vow of celibacy; those who do, do so voluntarily. They “renounce marriage” (Matt. 19:12); no one forbids it to them. Any Catholic who doesn’t wish to take such a vow doesn’t have to, and is almost always free to marry with the Church’s blessing. The Church simply elects candidates for the priesthood (or, in the Eastern rites, for the episcopacy) from among those who voluntarily renounce marriage.

**But is there scriptural precedent for this practice of restricting membership in a group to those who take a voluntary vow of celibacy? Yes. **Paul, writing once again to Timothy, mentions an order of widows pledged not to remarry (1 Tim 5:9-16); in particular advising: “But refuse to enroll younger widows; for when they grow wanton against Christ they desire to marry, and so they incur condemnation for having violated their first pledge” (5:11–12).

This “first pledge” broken by remarriage cannot refer to previous wedding vows, for Paul does not condemn widows for remarrying (cf. Rom. 7:2-3). It can only refer to a vow not to remarry taken by widows enrolled in this group. In effect, they were an early form of women religious—New Testament nuns. The New Testament Church did contain orders with mandatory celibacy, just as the Catholic Church does today.

Such orders are not, then, what Paul meant when he warned against “forbidding to marry.” The real culprits here are the many Gnostic sects through the ages which denounced marriage, sex, and the body as intrinsically evil. Some early heretics fit this description, as did the medieval Albigensians and Catharists (whom, ironically, some anti-Catholic writers admire in ignorance, apparently purely because they happened to have insisted on using their own vernacular translation of the Bible; see the Catholic Answers tract Catholic Inventions)."
Any comments regarding the above, Dokimas?
 
I can’t find any Scripture that speaks of a gedgree in divinity. I can find verses for bishops and pastors being married.

Is this a game to you? O yes, you said you’re trying to corner me. Good try.
Old answer, same dodge.

Not a game, I am just holding you to the same standard you want us to abide by. So, since it is not in the Bible, then the Protestant denominations are forcing men to have degrees in order to be a pastor. I find this curious since there were no such thing as a divinity degree from four year colleges in the 1st century. How can these Protestant churches have such a right to do that? By who’s authority do they require and force that on men who want to be pastors in their church.

As for cornering you, I just want a straight answer, not answering questions with questions, or avoiding.

Third time, what is the requirement in your denomination to become a pastor? Are they specifically verbatim mentioned in a verse from the Bible somewhere?
 
Old answer, same dodge.

Not a game, I am just holding you to the same standard you want us to abide by. So, since it is not in the Bible, then the Protestant denominations are forcing men to have degrees in order to be a pastor. I find this curious since there were no such thing as a divinity degree from four year colleges in the 1st century. How can these Protestant churches have such a right to do that? By who’s authority do they require and force that on men who want to be pastors in their church.

As for cornering you, I just want a straight answer, not answering questions with questions, or avoiding.

Third time, what is the requirement in your denomination to become a pastor? Are they specifically verbatim mentioned in a verse from the Bible somewhere?
I don’t belong to a denomination. End of answer.
 
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Jesus did NOT require the vow.  No one should be made to make the vow.
You are absolutely right, Doki, and on this point you are in 100% agreement with the Catholic Church. 👍

The Catholic Church teaches that it is impossible for a person to be forced to make a vow. 😃
Paul told them to marry if they couldn’t remain celebate for lust sake.
Reminds me of Moses making concessions for divorce!
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.  People act like animals in this sex crazed world.  Why put a man in the place where he may fail, not because he wants to but because he was made by God to have feelings?
This is a good example of the culture of death thinking. It represents a lack of faith, that the man is able to stand because God is able to make him stand. A man who takes a vow of celibacy is no more in a “place where he may fail” than a married man. Indeed, God created us all with sexual feelings. A married man may have sexual feelings for a woman who is not his wife. Is he “in a place where he may fail” because he took marriage vows?
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There is a big problem.  We don't take vows seriously enough.  That's why we should not ask anyone to make a vow that Jesus doesn't not ask of them.
You are absolutely right again Doki! And, again, in 100% agreement with the Catholic Teaching. The Catholic Church teaches that no one should take any kind of vow unless one is called of God to do so. 👍

I want you to know Doki that I had you on my mind today when I was sitting with a young man who is interested in going to the naval academy. Look at these requirements for admission:

Basic Requirements for Eligibility:
  • United States citizen:
  • Good moral character;
  • At least 17 and not past their 23rd birthday on 1 July of the year they would enter the academy;
  • Unmarried;
  • Not pregnant; and
  • No dependents.
Now, my question for you is this. Is the US Naval academy “forbidding marriage” to the applicants? Are they “forbidding pregnancy” or “forbidding children”? Along those lines, are they “forbidding good moral character”?

Is not the applicant free to choose any of these lifestyles and responsibilities, fully aware that if he decides to get married and have children, he will no longer be eligible for admission to the academy?

Just for the record, the young man I was sitting with prefers to stay unmarried and childless at the present, so that he can tender his application.
I believe I answered it. I said many evangelical churches use Paul’s writings to Timothy and Titus.

That’s the best I’ll do, understanding you are most likely trying to ‘paint me into a corner’.
I am glad that you can realize you are using a double standard, one for the Catholic Church, and another for Protestant. You are correct, using a double standard does paint you into a corner.
 
I accept that you have the right to see things your way. I accept your right to believe what you are taught by the CC.

I don’t get the same ‘feeling’ from you.

I only post on the non-catholic forum. I respond with what I believe to be true. You have come hard, at times, at what I believe. No big deal.

Why are you making it a big deal when I respond to what is said and by sharing, as often as I can using Bible verses, my differing understandings.
It is not the disagreement that is the problem. It is that you will not acknowledge our point of view. I just want to to be able to say “yes, I see how you get that”. Then if we still disagree, and you follow it by saying “but I see it differently” we could move on. But, as it is, since you are unable to articulate the opposing point of view, we have to assume that it bears continued explanation because you have not yet understood, or that you are intractibly stubborn, and refuse to get it.

It has nothing to do with “rights”. Of course everyone has the right to their opinion. The purpose of the forum is to discuss the differences - compare and contrast.
 
I think you missed a very important point too. It can be espressed in a question. Does Jesus only call men to the priesthood as a celebate? Be careful.
The Teaching of the Church and the Scripture clearly answer this question. Many are called, but few are chosen. In fact, I would venture that the vast majority of those called to the priesthood don’t answer the call.

There are married men who are called, and do answer, and are ordained.
 
Oh, and Doki, I might have missed this if you answered it but I don’t think you have.

Most Protestant denominations require their pastors to have a degree in theology from an approved divinity school.

WHERE in the Bible does Jesus specify this as a requirement for his ‘pastors?’
He answered this. He said they follow the instructions in Timothy and Titus, and that was all he was going to say, because he knew any more would paint him into a corner. 😃
 
They’d be wrong again. Jesus NEVER forbid married or single priests.
Your statement “again” makes it clear that you think it is “wrong” for the Catholic Church to choose from among those called to celibacy to serve as priests. It is an indication that you do not recognize the authority of the Church to make this discipline.

You are right, though, that Jesus NEVER forbid married or single priests. That is why the Catholic Church does not do it either. 😃
BTW, getting a theology degree doesn’t contradict the Bible. Keeping a man from the priesthood for not wanting to be celebate is not in accord with the teaching of Jesus and Paul.
Choosing from among those who are called to celibacy to serve as priests does not contradict the bible, either.

A man is not “kept” from the priesthood, Doki. A person receives a call to ministry, and that call is discerned over the course of many years, as we do not lay hands on anyone in haste. The candidate does not necessarily "want’ to be celibate, either. Some people who are called to celibacy would much rather be sexually active, but they know that this is not the will of God for their lives, so they choose to beat their flesh into submission, and be guided by the Spirit into purity.

This is the same thing married persons must do who may have sexual attractions to people other than their spouse.
 
I didn’t ask about the CC, I asked about Jesus.

Jesus not being married isn’t the issue. What He taught is the issue.
Well, they are not separable. Jesus taught by his actions, as well as his words. He said that some people MAKE THEMSELVES eunuchs for the Kingdom, and that if a person is so called, such a person should accept the gift. He modeled with his life how this gift is lived out.
I don’t believe the Bible is open to private interpretation, especially mine, but also a church isn’t permited to privately interpret either.
Those who do interpret it “privately” believe they are led by the HS.

I agree, the Church is not at liberty to interpret the scripture outside of the teaching of those who wrote, preserved, promulgated and canonized it. The context of the NT is the Catholic Church.
Getting a degree does not contradict Bible doctrine. Forcing celibacy does.
This is quite true, which is one reason the CC cannot do such a thing. 😃
 
No, I do not expect Catholics to be perfect, so when they fall short, I don’t need to accuse and find fault with them. It is true, I am disappointed when anyone (including myself) who claims to be long to Christ falls into sin, but I do not declare that the Church is not His HOly Bride because some people fall short.
'zactly, guanophore. 👍

See what the good Bishop of Hippo said circa the 4th century:

When I hear of a Christian brother, ignorant of these things, or in error concerning them, I can tolerate his uninformed opinion; and I do not see that any lack of knowledge as to the form or nature of this material creation can do him much harm, as long as he does not hold a belief in anything which is unworthy of thee, O Lord, the Creator of all. But if he thinks that his secular knowledge pertains to the essence of the doctrine of piety, or ventures to assert dogmatic opinions in matters in which he is ignorant—there lies the injury. (St. Augustine: Confessions V:5)

And just so we’re clear, St. Augustine was talking about Catholics here, as they were the only Christians around at this time.
 
Originally Posted by Nicea325
Whatever Dokimas! You cannot accept the fact it is very possible for someone to remain celibate prior to being a priest or as a discipline or simply remaining celibate as a lay person. Do not let your pride hit you on the way out…
Okay, let me not be sarcastic.
Wrong again. You can not find one thing I said that can be twisted into saying I think that it is possible for someone to remain celibate prior to being a priest or as a ciscipline or simply remaing celibate as a lay person. Do you know why? Cuz I NEVER said it or implied it. In fact, I don’t think the statement you say I believe is true.
For you and PR, a weak argument is one that tries to belittle what someone is saying by misquoting, misrepresenting, distorting, etc.
Do I hear the victim card? Please! Distorting? Since you believe it is FORCED upon men,I asked you tell me who FORCED St.Paul to be celibate and single, if he was not married?

Your response: Silly question

So tell me Dokimas,who forced St.Paul to be celibate and single? God?
 
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