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SpiritMeadow
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Dale it probably would not be politic of me to criticize the internal issues that confront the RCC. I know that we have learned from our mistakes, hopefully. While many who approved Robinson’s ordination would not change their mind, many do now see that it was handled poorly. In our parish we surely are taking the same-sex Iowa Supreme court case carefully and slowly step by step. We are trying to not debate, not judge, and not argue, but simply to first provide information, then provide teaching, and then well, we will see. We are hoping to develop a forum teaching study this fall. That is our next step. Our bishop has been helpful in his guidance and frankly, most of us feel quite good about how things are going.I suppose it is human nature to get annoyed at persons who disagree with you on matters you may prize very highly. So the attitude of “Shoo, go away, ya bother me” which you mentioned is understandable. However, I don’t think it is an attitude to be indulged . If a Catholic truly believed that the Church has the Truth and the Real Presence, it would be uncharitable, if not downright heartless, to encourage others to leave the Church. A much tougher road, but perhaps more in tune with Christ’s love, would be to work and pray to bring cafeteria Catholics around to orthodoxy. I can’t help but think there is a bit of selfishness in the desire to expel anyone who doesn’t measure up to our own personal standards.
But note, please, that I too am not a member of the Catholic Church, at least not in good standing. I lost my faith in it about nine months ago, although I still have a fondness for the Church.
Gentleness, and loving listening are very important. I do agree, we wish everyone to come to the table, not just those who agree with us.