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whatevergirl
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Amen rayne.
I guess I don’t know Jay enough. Is this commonplace for his posts?? haha
I guess I don’t know Jay enough. Is this commonplace for his posts?? haha
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lak611
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I am a single woman who goes to sports bars occasionally to watch NBA, NFL, or boxing (one sports bar has the fights that would cost $60 on pay-per-view with no cover charge). I go because I like the sports. As for picking up girls, I have never had a man hit on me at a sports bar, even though the crowd at sports bars tends to be 75% male. Of the 25% female crowd probably about 80% of them are with husbands or boyfriends. I would say a sports bar is probably the least likely type of bar for a man to pick up a woman. The men are too busy watching the game or fight. In fact for the Mayweather/DeLaHoya fight, afterwards the line for the men’s room was about 15 outside the room. There was no line for the women’s room.
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rayne89
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Oh yes, you should check out his comments on the playboy mansion thread.
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Jay2
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(I didn’t know I had a “rep” around here)I dunno… My wife is a d*mn good lookin’ woman. Many men have made asses of themselves around her, and I’ve busted more than my fair share of chops (and my knuckles) when testosterone overrided brains when we’ve been out… price of a man defending his woman I guess…(but staples & stitches still hurt!)
Again, what is so terribly wrong about a man (married or single) taking a look at a pretty gal? Hello?? This is Men calling… pretty women around…we’re in “stupid phase” please leave a message and we’ll get back later…
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whatevergirl
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hahaha ok. I can only imagine.Oh yes, you should check out his comments on the playboy mansion thread.
I think if I was camped out at a nice house all day with male models swimming around…my husband wouldn’t be ‘yeah, go for it baby.’
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whatevergirl
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Nothing any more wrong than a woman checking out a good looking man…Nothing wrong with looking…we are all human. It’s that you said…‘could’ wear, as if the men that are looking at pretty women are inside wishing…only hoping…their wives looked like Hooters chicks.
I dunno… My wife is a d*mn good lookin’ woman. Many men have made asses of themselves around her, and I’ve busted more than my fair share of chops (and my knuckles) when testosterone overrided brains when we’ve been out… price of a man defending his woman I guess…(but staples & stitches still hurt!)
Again, what is so terribly wrong about a man (married or single) taking a look at a pretty gal? Hello?? This is Men calling… pretty women around…we’re in “stupid phase” please leave a message and we’ll get back later…
Nothing wrong with looking…something wrong with wishing your wife/gf looked like someone else.
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rayne89
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I didn’t say there was something terribly wrong about looking at a pretty girl. Those waitresses are hired specifically because of their body type, they wear daisydukes and tight shirts as part of their required “uniform”. They are hired specifically for the purpose of being put on display for men to gawk at them. This to me is degrading. If I see a beautiful girl in public, I sometimes will even point it out to my hubby. There’s nothing wrong with admiring God’s handy work (respectfully). But to have to wear immodest clothing and have a certain body type just to serve food is an insult to the dignity of women.
I dunno… My wife is a d*mn good lookin’ woman. Many men have made asses of themselves around her, and I’ve busted more than my fair share of chops (and my knuckles) when testosterone overrided brains when we’ve been out… price of a man defending his woman I guess…(but staples & stitches still hurt!)
Again, what is so terribly wrong about a man (married or single) taking a look at a pretty gal? Hello?? This is Men calling… pretty women around…we’re in “stupid phase” please leave a message and we’ll get back later…
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whatevergirl
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Do I think going to a sports bar is a bad thing for men? No–my husband does it.
Do I mind? No. I go out with gf’s of mine…although we go to restaurants…but we sometimes go for a drink after work…not a big deal. Frequency I think is what can make simple things like this turn bad.
But, I think that a couple needs to be on the same page when it comes to socializing…etc…No one has addressed this yet, but a man shouldn’t put a good time with the boys over his wife’s feelings. If she is truly upset by it, then is it worth going? Now, there could be insecurity issues, bla bla…and that might mean that counseling is in order…but our spouses’ feelings should matter more than our nights on the town. If your spouse’s feelings don’t matter…don’t get married…stay single.
Do I mind? No. I go out with gf’s of mine…although we go to restaurants…but we sometimes go for a drink after work…not a big deal. Frequency I think is what can make simple things like this turn bad.
But, I think that a couple needs to be on the same page when it comes to socializing…etc…No one has addressed this yet, but a man shouldn’t put a good time with the boys over his wife’s feelings. If she is truly upset by it, then is it worth going? Now, there could be insecurity issues, bla bla…and that might mean that counseling is in order…but our spouses’ feelings should matter more than our nights on the town. If your spouse’s feelings don’t matter…don’t get married…stay single.
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lak611
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Hooters used to have several restaurants in the Cleveland area. They all went out of business because they did not make enough money in the market area. There are no other sports bars in Cleveland that are like Hooters. One of the sports bars that I frequent even sponsors Little League teams (and adult softball, as well). Many of the kids come with their parents after Little League games. They have great food and give free refills on pop. They even have a children’s menu.
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kage_ar
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The married people I’ve personally known who have had affairs have met the “other person” at work or on the internet -
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whatevergirl
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did they work at Hooters? Just kidding.The married people I’ve personally known who have had affairs have met the “other person” at work or on the internet -
How did we get started on this Hooters topic?
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rayne89
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I realize the majority of sports bars are not like Hooters. The comments I made to Jay were specifically talking about a Hooters type establishment.
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whatevergirl
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why are you beating up men who gawk at your wife? i thought you subscribe to that thinking…hey they are just looking…right?
I dunno… My wife is a d*mn good lookin’ woman. Many men have made asses of themselves around her, and I’ve busted more than my fair share of chops (and my knuckles) when testosterone overrided brains when we’ve been out… price of a man defending his woman I guess…(but staples & stitches still hurt!)
Again, what is so terribly wrong about a man (married or single) taking a look at a pretty gal? Hello?? This is Men calling… pretty women around…we’re in “stupid phase” please leave a message and we’ll get back later…
No worries, Jay. Double standards make the world go 'round.
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mariam1976
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i love this one…why are you beating up men who gawk at your wife? i thought you subscribe to that thinking…hey they are just looking…right?
No worries, Jay. Double standards make the world go 'round.
but apart from that, i am recently divorced… so its not for me… i just got this thought in my mind from one of the other threads going on out there about free time for husbands…
one of my friends husbands insists on going to the sports bars and she does not like it… since i have not been there… i did not how it was…
however i dont think it is still appropriate given the fact that she does not like it… i would say that he could do something else or maybe find something to do together with her…
i do know that u guys are pretty candid about everything so i knew that i would get the right answers from u…
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Jay2
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There’s no “Dbl. Standard”.
“gawking” is fine… I’m victim of it myself, and the wife shaped elbow bruises in my ribs I carry are evidence.
It’s when the gawk travels from the brain-down the arm-to the hand… which then squeezes my wife’s *ss or b**b
Then Mister… you just bought the entire can of Whoop-*** - and you ARE going to finish the whole 12oz.
“gawking” is fine… I’m victim of it myself, and the wife shaped elbow bruises in my ribs I carry are evidence.
It’s when the gawk travels from the brain-down the arm-to the hand… which then squeezes my wife’s *ss or b**b
Then Mister… you just bought the entire can of Whoop-*** - and you ARE going to finish the whole 12oz.
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Island_Oak
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Fabulous!why are you beating up men who gawk at your wife? i thought you subscribe to that thinking…hey they are just looking…right?
No worries, Jay. Double standards make the world go 'round.
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rayne89
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Jay my friend where to hang out where this happens on a regular basis? Ok I’m 35 now but I’ve been married to my husband since I was 18 and back in the day not to sound vain but I definitely could turn heads. Whistles and cat calls yeah, but only once in my life have I ever had someone touch me. It was in a large crowd (at a Monster Truck Show) and I couldn’t tell who did it or I would have decked the guy myself. Where do you hang out where there a men that would have the audacity to grab a woman’s breast?
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Jay2
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Because some women have their “knickers in a twist” about THEIR man looking at another woman.
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Jay2
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Find a pub where intense blues guitars wail, a few horns/sax’s hang out, and the 1st thru 50 parking slots are occupied by Harleys…that’s where you’ll get your t*t squeezed.
Don’t necessarily like the crowd, but the music kicks *ss
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