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Margarite
Guest
Thank you, for your words of caution, and I agree that it is wrong to tarnish a person’s name, but I have purposely given no names. I am using my family as an example, because I know them best out of any SSPX people. I am feel it is my duty to use my experiences. God was the one who put me in this family, he allowed me to experience the Church from many different viewpoints, he gave me parents who were able to teach me why, though we prefer the mass said by the SSPX, why we attend the NO. I don’t believe that God gave me these experiences for me to keep within myself, but rather so that I could use them in defense of the Faith. God can bring good out of bad, and hopefully out of the bad that is causing a rift in my family he can bring good. I think that it is important for people to expose what is not good for what it really is. I think it is important for people to see that the SSPX isn’t as good as they claim. The only way I can make my comments about the SSPX valid, is if I show you all a real life example. I am 19 after all, and why should anyone believe a 19 year old unless that 19 year old has experiences to prove what they believe.It was I who said that you were young and loyal to your parents. It was not meant as an insult. I was young once, too, and am still loyal to my parents. But age and experience away from one’s parents does tend to change one’s outlook. All that aside, my main concern, as I said earlier, is your airing of family problems on a public forum. I can only imagine what you tell your close friends. Please beware of the sin of detraction. It is a very serious sin. Already, some comments on your story:
These people do not know your family. Yet they’ve already formed conclusions and made judgments on them from what you have said. It matters not if all that you have said is true. We are not allowed to reveal the sins of others, real or imagined. We must carry our crosses in silence, God in heaven knows our problems and deals with them in His way.
I lived in St. Marys when I was little, when I left I must admit that I had a very SSPX viewpoint even though I had been attending the FSSP. I thought that the mass at EWTN was horribly liberal. Even at age 9 I was stubbornly saying the creed and Pater Noster in Latin during the NO mass. I looked down upon all the fools who didn’t know the Latin, and who thought that the NO mass was a good mass. Then my parents seeing the ugliness in their own children realized that they had to show us, despite their dislike for the less beautiful NO mass, that the NO was valid, and should be viewed equal to the TLM in validity even if it wasn’t as beautiful. So, they made us participate in the mass, they showed us where we could stick to our tradition without sticking our noses in the air, in such issues as altar girls. We always received Holy Communion from the priest, until we moved to Vegas, because here the EMHE are needed. There is one or two priests per parish, and sometimes 10,000 member families. So, over time, we have learned that the NO mass is beautiful, not as extravagantly beautiful as the TLM, but beautiful nonetheless (when it is celebrated correctly). Right now, we try to attend the hybrid mass in our diocese. It is the only mass that is even close to the TLM that is in union with Rome. Sometimes we don’t make it because it is at 9:30am and we have to get up at 7:30 am to make it, and sometimes my parents are too tired to make it. Then we go to our local parish, the music is protestant, the tabernacle is on the side, the priests are great, there are about 1,500 people at every mass, they now have a beautiful crucifix that is at least 20 feet tall and takes up the whole area behind the altar, we learned that the pastor is trying to learn the TLM in his rare free moments. It is the best parish in Las Vegas. My father writes to the priest almost every week, either complaining about the music, or complementing a sermon or a new change for the better.
We are in a battle, we need help, so the only way to keep the help we have and to maybe get some help is to show the truth about those who are trying to take away from our ranks. The SSPX may be technically within the Church, but it is fighting against the healing that the Pope is striving for, and they are weakening those of us who love the TLM, they make it easy for us to give up. We need them to join in the fight, and to renew the strength and determination of all of us who are fighting. Don’t you see that Truth is the only way to victory, whether it is truth about them, or about us, or about the enemy, but Truth will win.
Again I am sorry for writing so much.
Have a Wonder Full day!