Also, to those who say that women should not go to college because they should be good wives.
Nuns are not good wives, they do not have children, and yet the SSPX supports them. Are only men to be allowed to teach children in high school? because a college degree is required to teach highschool. Are women to be denied the right to know about their faith? The best way to learn about the faith is to attend a Catholic Liberal Arts college like Wyoming Catholic College, Thomas Aquinas College, or Christendom College. Are women to be denied the right to study the faith? St. Catharine of Sienna was denied the right to learn even how to read and write because of it was unthinkable for women of that time, yet Christ deemed it good to teach her himself, not only how to read, but St. Catherine was also one of the most brilliant theological minds of her day and is now a Doctor of the Church. But I forgot, maybe the SSPX doesn’t hold with such an outlandish idea? I mean Christ must have been out of his mind to teach a woman! And all those popes and bishops she wrote letters to, they must have been out of their minds to listen to her.
Now, I do understand that people like to blame their sins on the situations they are in, but that is just another sin. I am a girl, I went to a public high school because the Catholic one in Vegas is worse than the worst public one, sure, there were lots of bad kids doing drugs, sex, and alcohol, but there were plenty of good kids too. If I had decided to do any of that stuff, I could have blamed it on my surroundings, but that would have been wrong, it would have been completely my own fault. I didn’t give into this stuff, and I cannot credit my surroundings with that either. There are also many choices available especially in college. The way my family is doing it is we will all (girls and boys) go to at least two years of Catholic liberal arts college at Wyoming Catholic College, then we will go on to whatever university we want to go to where we can major in what we want to do. I think I will be an architect; my next sister an engineer, or biomedical-engineer; my next sister a dentist, and my brothers are still too young to decide. But ultimately we know that we have a vocation to be nuns, sisters, wives, or single women. God has destined us for some work, and we are just going to prepare ourselves in the best way possible. If I am to be a stay-at-home mom then GREAT! What a wonderful life I will have, but if my family falls into hard times, I will have something to fall back on. If I am to be a nun, then maybe I will be able to use my education to help, otherwise, I spent a good few years learning. If I am to be single, then I have a way to support myself, and help my brothers and sisters if they need help.
Have any of you heard of the Sister Servants? They are a wonderful group of nuns in Birmingham, and one of their sisters was the daughter of a man who owned his own construction company, and she got some sort of degree in construction. Now that order is building a beautiful convent and retreat house, and she is able to help them. She makes sure that everything is well done, she is able to help the order save money by taking charge of allot of the construction, she even trained the other sisters and they all roofed their own convent because that was the cheapest way for them to do it. They are using the gifts and experiences that God gave them to do God’s work. The money they have is all given to them by benefactors, so think how appreciative those benefactors are that the nuns are stretching their money as far as it can go and building a beautiful place at the same time.
God is good, he gives us gifts, and he gives us many opportunities to develop those gifts.
Right now, my father makes a good living, but he doesn’t make enough for a family of eight to live. He is an attorney, but he still can’t make enough, so my mother has to work. She grew up in a SSPX family where girls didn’t go to college, so she doesn’t have a degree. The only jobs available to her are very manual jobs. She has very bad verocose veins in her legs, so she can’t stand very much during the day, so working in department stores is out, working at a grocery store doesn’t make enough, sewing for the casinos wouldn’t make enough money, she passed the realtor test, but in this slump, it just doesn’t cut it, she could go down and work at the casinos if she wasn’t Catholic. If she was out there looking for a job, she couldn’t, she wouldn’t be able to find a job that made enough. Luckily, I have an Uncle who owns a buisness here in Vegas, and he hired her to be a Sales rep to the casinos.
Don’t you see, that it is important for women to be able educated?
An aunt of mine had an abusive husband so she left him. She has no education, so she has to rely on the charity of her family to support her and her five children.
(Please don’t offer your sympathy, I am just using these as examples. Life gave me these as examples, so I use them.)
Education is the smart thing to do. My sister has SAT scores and a GPA high enough for her to easily get into Harvard or any other college that she may want to get into. Why should she be denied this wonderful chance simply because some bishop somewhere doesn’t think she should go? No! She should go, God gave her that amazing brain, and the desire to study Biology and Engineering! Why should she waste what HE gave her? Why shouldn’t she develop her talent? Yes, first she will go to Wyoming Catholic College, every Catholic (male or female) should do this before attending any large college or university, but she shouldn’t stop there, God gave her too much brain and desire for that. I am not saying that she has to spend her life as a biomedical engineer, but she should develop the skill because God gave her the desire and ability. She may go right out of school into the convent, or become a stay-at-home mom, but she still knows that she developed what God gave her to the best of her ability. What if she goes on and stays single because that is God’s will, and what if she is the one who is able to cure cancer? Or what if she is the one who invents an extremely comfortable prosthetic leg? Or what if she is the one to develop some tool that will save thousands of lives in surgery? Or what if God just wanted her to fine-tune her abilities and desires so that she could pass it onto her sons?
How can you deny God this wonderful instrument? I just can’t understand!

I better stop jabbering before I run out of space.
