With all due respect, your pronouncement that I am not a modernist is hardly consolation.
From my perspective, it is believed by some that everyone who attends the OF regularly and does not prefer the EF is a modernist and that there should be some soft of scorched earth policy against them.
I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone refer to any layperson as a modernist, even on “other” internet discussion forums. The word is usually reserved for bishops. (I don’t condone that, but that is my observation as to how it is used.)
I don’t know if it will make you feel better but here is what I see out there in internet trad-land:
There is a vocal group of people who will not be satisfied until the new mass is suppressed and the old mass made mandatory for all latin rite priests. These people often question the orthodoxy of all non-SSPX priests. Some of them refer to the SSPX as “the remnant Church”.
Yes, these people are there. However I think that they are far more vocal than they are numerous.
By the way I am pretty sure I have mentioned it before, but I personally don’t go to SSPX chapels, I don’t even know any SSPX priests or regular attendees of SSPX chapels. I am certainly not one of the people described above, so I don’t know why I should be scaring you.
To understand the traditionalist mindset, it helps to look back at the situation in the early 70s, especially in Europe. Archbishop Lefebvre had started his seminary and was forming the seminarians just as he himself had been formed. The French bishops of that time were (for some reason) outraged that the Archbishop was being permitted to do this, and they demanded a visitation. A visitation was arranged and, although the visitors seems to find the seminary acceptable, they expressed some theological opinions that horrified the seminarians and Archbishop Lefebvre, such as: truth is culturally and temporally relative, it is an open question whether Jesus physically rose from the dead, the ordination of women is inevitable, all religions are equally acceptable to God, and so on.
This is what they are resisting. It is easy for us to say now: well, of course this is all unorthodox and no right minded Catholic would agree with these propositions, but they are convinced that the majority of the worlds bishops hold these propositions to be true, and it is difficult to disabuse them of that notion because, among other things, very few of the bishops are willing to make it crystal clear that it isn’t the case by publicly denouncing such errors.
Fr. Niklaus Pfluger, SSPX, recently gave a talk where he spoke about this and said that the first time the SSPX recognized that maybe the above was not the prevailing opinion in the Vatican curia, was in 2005 when Pope Benedict denounced the hermeneutic of rupture and introduced the idea of the hermeneutic of reform. He (Fr. Pfluger) said (paraphrased): “Of course there was a rupture. Everybody believed there was a rupture. We saw the rupture, theologians said there was a rupture, bishops preached the rupture, but then the Pope suddenly appeared and said: Stop! there wasn’t a rupture! The council was not a moment of rupture, it was a moment of reform”
Fr. Pfluger said that was what caused the leadership of the SSPX to begin to consider the possibility of talking to the Holy See. Up until that, the SSPX had just written off any hope of discussions, much less regularization.
So the leadership has been moving along a path since 2005, but a lot of it has been out of the sight of the laity and they have been taught for so many years to resist, resist, resist. It is going to be difficult for them to change.