Hi. I’m an actual, in the flesh (well, virtual in this context, I suppose) member of Opus Dei. I’m also eight months pregnant and exhausted, so I’ll keep this as brief as I can.
I just got back from my annual retreat yesterday, held at a local retreat house owned and operated by Opus Dei. As always, it was very spiritually refreshing and I came away with a lot to pray and think about, and some resolutions that need working on. Our retreats probably tend to be more “traditional” than most these days-- they are silent retreats, i.e. the participants are silent, while the priest preaches multiple times per day, offers Mass and benediction, hears confession, etc. There is also one talk per day given by one of the lay women, on practical virtue topics like humility, etc… The Mass was NO, in Latin (except the readings) and facing the people, but with a six-candle + crucifix arrangement on the altar between the priest and the people. Customary for the Work, the vestments, sacred vessels, altar furnishings, etc. were all beautiful and of high quality. No glass pitchers or earthenware bowls to be seen… Normally everyone kneels to receive on the tongue, although occasionally you’ll see a someone with horrifically bad knees or hips, or a mother cradling an infant, who cannot “land” safely down on the kneeler and then get back up again. Hopefully that gives you some idea of liturgical practice-- by-the-book, deeply reverent, and beautiful.
And funny, enough, the priest was actually sort of chuckling about your question during one of the meditations. “So, what is it you people
do, exactly???” In a nutshell: Opus Dei’s mission is to proclaim the universal call to holiness. Sanctity is the vocation of all the baptized, not just for the occasional stand-out saint like Mother Teresa or Padre Pio. How we “do” that then is somewhat the same for everybody: we live a fairly demanding program of piety each day-- Mass, Rosary, mental prayer, spiritual reading, etc… But that’s only sort of the bare-bone structure. The rest of the day depends on the individual-- we all attempt to come closer to God through our daily work and family life. We view these things as the means to our sanctity, not an obstacle to it. We try to be contemplatives in the middle of the world.
As a natural overflow of this attempt to be holy, we also try to be very apostolic. This doesn’t usually mean something structured and organized, like door-to-door missions or anything. Instead, it means meeting people where they’re at and trying to help them draw nearer to God. So for a non-Christian friend, it might begin simply by gradually helping them understand our Judeo-Christian worldview-- that there is one God, who made us and loves us passionately, and that there actually are objective standards of right and wrong. Dealing with a Protestant will likely hit on many of the issues discussed at CAF-- helping them understand the true nature of the Church’s authority, the saints and BVM, the misguided nature of
sola scriptura, etc. For a lapsed Catholic, it might start with some gentle urges to come along with me to Confession or to pray the Rosary, or perhaps speak to a priest about regularizing an irregular marriage. Etc. I hope you get the idea??
Your question is quite broad, so it’s difficult to know exactly what you’re looking for. Please do dig through the website a bit more-- it is quite extensive, if you poke around a bit beyond the main page.
Best regards,
Margaret