I asked that this not become personal, and now you have made it that way. Perhaps my friend who decided not to continue to argue did so because he sees no point in doing so? Could it be that he decided he had made his point once and trying to beat it into someone’s head is a futile concept? Could it be that he decided that he wasn’t going to reiterate himself when he had already offered a concise and complete argument? Your smug response wreaks of Pride and is EXACTLY what I was trying to avoid in my original question.
My personal opinion which I will offer since I started the thread and am the one who proposed the original question: This is exactly why people are reserved and sometimes “run away from” the Catholic Church. How can we expect to evangelize others when we can’t get along ourselves? I respect one’s affection for certain tradition and I admire the passion that one has for it. But recognize that is what it is, an affection for a certain celebration of the same rite. To assume or imply that a person is getting less of a spiritual experience because they attend Novus Ordo is insulting, baseless, indefensible, and in direct contradiction with the teachings of the Church and every Pope since Vatican II. I offer you a rather different and apparently less applied concept: Let’s unite as brothers and sisters in Christ. When we disagree, let us do so as Jesus and not with pride or an angry heart. Let’s work together to fight the motives and powers of satan. Let’s show those who live outside of Christ the passion we ALL share for Him and the fact that some prefer to celebrate the same Rite differently, but within the prescribed magesterium of the Church. But most of all, let’s respect one another and love our brothers as ourselves. When we disagree, let us do so as Jesus and not with a prideful or angry heart.
Dominus Vobiscum