As I understand love and devotion for the Novus Ordo. It still does not render the offering of the Novus Ordo, under circumstances which allow a Priest or Deacon to change the words of the GIRM and the Roman Missal to include gender-neutral language, or to Preach in contradiction to the Teachings of the Faith and Morality.** Those ARE abuses and there are NO circumstances which allow it. And priests have preached heresy for the entire history of the Church, virtually. Some are corrected, give it up, and are reconciled to the Church. Some don’t, like Arius. We don’t have the freedom to avoid a licit Mass for an illicit one, however. We can do something about heretic priests, just as we can do something about genuine abuses of the TLM (I have confronted priests at the door of the church for abuses that I’ve witnessed, mainly the paraphrasing of the canon of the Mass). **
Also, although the MP allows the faithful to request LICIT TLMs, it certainly does not provide for those Bishops who refuse to offer it. The situation in my Diocese is that. To drive from the southern edge to the northern edge of the Diocese–from where I live to the only Parish in which it is offered–is almost an hour and a half’s drive one way. The cost of gas makes it impossible, as does the fact I work on most Sundays–I assure you that I had done everything in my power to change that fact, to no avail. A group of us even offered to pay 100 percent of all expenses involved in flying down a Priest of the FSSP once a week in order to Celebrate Mass , and the offer was declined by the FSSP.** I don’t know the size of the city where you live, but are you saying that there are NO masses closer to you or are you saying that there are no EF masses closer to you. Are there no OF masses offered “properly” (with the caveat that what is “proper” isn’t always synonymous with “to my taste”)?**
**Either way, no, your obligation is not fufilled unless you are the person to whom the Holy See addressed those letters. You COULD address your own dubium to the Holy See. People do all the time. **
So Kirk, I find myself in an impossible position: financially I can not afford the expense of the drive each week (I’m a commissioned salesman selling fine jewelry in this economy), nor does my work schedule allow for it. On the other hand the Parishes in this area offer a Novus Ordo Mass which contradict the norms of the GIRM, the Roman Missal in current use, and the Teachings of the Church, especially in the area of Morality.** All of them? Every last one of them? How egregious are the abuses? My pastor has a tendency to invite applause for our schola. It isn’t proper, but it’s hardly heretical. I put up with it. **
It is quite an easy thing to say “offer it up, buck it up and go”. quite another to be forced to do so week after week after week.