I was thinking about posting different threads for this, but, instead I’m going to treat this like a journal.
Before Mass, I was in line for confession. Another young lady joined me and this woman who was in a mantilla and asked if there is face-to-face confession. I told her I didn’t know. She also asked me, when I pointed out there were other lit confessionals, if they were in English (which, IS a fair question, I think, because there seemed to be a small amount of what appeared to be people of Phillipino descent and the Stations of the Cross are in Polish). I again told her that I didn’t know, but, maybe that woman does. I asked the woman if she was a part of this parish and she asks me, “Why do you want to know?” And I told her because this other young lady has a few questions and the young lady asked her if there is face-to-face confession? She said no, and that is (actually, I didn’t hear what she said here). She continued on to say that that was an abuse after Vatican II. “Why would you ask that question?” was her question to the young lady. I went off to another confessional, the young lady went back to sit with the party she was sitting with.
I later had the priviledge to speak to the woman to explain to her that not everybody knows these things. She said she understands, and she was caught offguard because she was going over in her head all her sins and talking with God, and, basically, for all she knew, I could have been a reporter. She went on to explain that face-to-face confessions shouldn’t happen, “They’re not doctors;” that it should remain anonymous and un-prejudiced.
She also told me that Vatican II took out 1/3 of the prayers from the Mass and that I should just go to the Latin Mass, if nothing else, for the prayers (I may have hinted that I’m not a fan of the Latin Mass, but, even if I go to the Novus Ordo Mass there, I know it wont be filled with abuses…or irreverance). It seems to me, so far, that the NO mass is better because we have new OT readings, NT readings, Psalm, and Gospel every week.
My two questions (so far) are:
- Is it true face-to-face is an abuse? (The woman asked the lady for clarification to make sure it was for confession and not just spiritual direction.)
- Why is it more of the same things every time at a Latin Mass (or am I not paying attention enough to the Mass to notice the differences?)
Thank you for all who reply!